Saturday, July 31, 2010

Any one have any advice on winning the heart of a danish man? any danes out there have any suggestions?

I am IN LOVE with a danish man, he has been here all year, now is going back to denmark. Not sure how he feels at all, since he is sending very mixed messages, has said he's just want to be friends since he's going back home, but acts differently.





This may sound silly and pointless, I am NOT one to be boy crazy or irrational about relationships - and this isn't a young 'puppy love' thing, it's very real, and I really care very much for him, we have a connection that i've never felt with anyone (otherwise i wouldn't even bother with this seemingly impossible situation!)





He has thought about staying here, then decided to go back to denmark. NOT very experienced in relationships, not ready for big commitment. What can i do to make him reconsider, or at least to keep him thinking of me while he's gone? I want to respect any cultural differences we may have too, don't want to overwhelm him or drive him away....





THANK YOU and happy holidays!!!!!Any one have any advice on winning the heart of a danish man? any danes out there have any suggestions?
Hmm. Danes aren't that different than other ppl so you dont really have to think about cultural differences... (where are you from btw?)


I am from Denmark myself...


You seem pretty crazy for him. Why dont you tell him? ;-)


I understand if he is confused because he is not used to have a relationship - maybe a long-distance relationship is not the best for a ';beginner'; :-/


...but if he has felt something for you, you should give it a try.


Try to write to him a lot. Make him feel comfortable by talking to you. Try also to write some cute things in danish ;-) (some danes are very proud of their language) - impress him ; )





';hi'; = ';hej';


';How are you?'; = ';Hvordan g氓r det?';


***answer***


';I'm fine'; = ';Det g氓r fint';





';I miss you'; = ';Jeg savner dig';


';Merry Christmas'; = ';Gl忙delig Jul';


';Happy newyear!'; = ';Godt nyt氓r!';


';Sleep tight'; = ';Sov godt';


';Goodnight'; = ';godnat';


';Good morning'; = ';god morgen';


';Hello, handsome'; = ';Hej smukke';


';You are handsome'; = ';Du er smuk';


';Yes'; = ';ja';


';no'; = ';nej';





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we have some strange letters in danish ';忙酶氓';


you can write like:


';忙'; = ';ae';


';酶'; = ';oe';


';氓'; = ';aa';





Good luck!! ^_^

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