Advice on how to keep a man interest?

I just met this really chill guy and hooked up with him. We just started talking this weekend but i met him several times before just never really talked.





Well anyways I know he likes me and i told him I like him. I didn't think I would like him this much already.... Which has never happened before this fast.





last night we got to talking and he told me he hasn't been in a relationship in 5 yrs.. I was like damn why and he told me because he loses his interest easily. Which kinda now gives me a challenge cause with guys I always get what I want (not to sound cocky or anything) but I'm worried I'll lose his interest easily now.





So anyways... how are ways to keep him interested with out seeming pressed?? Guys what are things that really gets you to like a girl a lot?? What are things I can do to get his attention? Please just give me some serious advice or ideas idk i really like him and don't want him to forget me....Advice on how to keep a man interest?
Be yourself and if he's the right guy he'll love you. Don't let him know that your scared of loosing his interest; just continue to get to know him, his likes and dislikes, and having fun together. If you listen to stereotypes: like be super sexy not clingy and blah blah blah you may focus too much on trying to be something instead of letting him really get to know you. I hope everything turns out ok! :)Advice on how to keep a man interest?
Find out what this guys interests are in. If he likes going to certain places, take him there. Find out what he likes to talk about, let him talk and also give your feedback. Show interest in him, because that can be one reason why he may lose interest in others he dated. Don't forget to be yourself. It will never work if you are trying to be something you aren't. The right one for you will accept you for who you are and would never want to leave you!
I agree that you should be yourself.





But, I also think you can help keep his interest by being independent and doing a lot of things on your own/with your girlfriends. You'll be more interesting (and more of a challenge for HIM) if you have a busy social life that involves a lot of different people. In other words, make sure you always have a life of your own.
From a guys perspective you have to be interesting and not 'same-old, same-old'. Be extremely flirty and sexual, but not overbearing and clingy. See him one day, be sexy as hell with him. The next day dont communicate with him until he contacts you. A guy wants sex as their first thing, so usually they get it and move on (lose intrest). So give him sex (be enthusiastic!) and act like its just a sex thing...but every time you see him, blow his mind and soon enough he will want no one but you.
You say you ';hooked up';....If you haven't slept with him then dont do it. That will keep his interest....also be yourself and once he's met the right one he wont lose interest.





Definitely dont sleep with him too early...thats always a bad move with guys like that.
be yourself. if he is meant for you he will love you for who you are :-)





TC and good luck
if you seem to get what you want with guys, then he shouldnt be an exception. Im surprised you re asking this on YA when you re the type who gets what she wants.


Anyway to the main topic, id say be yourself, keep doing what yo're doing with guys with him. The probable reason why he loses interest with girls easily is because they were too clingy, boring, selfish or not mature enough.


so you have to be a challenge to him, be spontaneous, move very close to him, tease him compliment him, flirt with him, then withdraw for a while. I dont mean for months, just be a bit busy for a while and keep him wondering, then come back in and do all those things and withdraw again. But make sure when you re with him, pay attention to him, cook for him, compliment him, massage him, take an interest in his life (genuine interest), watch his sports with him(if you dont like it, pretend to like it), satisfy him in all ways (without neglecting yourself of course), just boost his male EGO (haha all men love that), make him fall hard and fast. In no tiime he wont be able to resist you
Well girly he could be doing one of two things.





ONE: He could be telling you that because he knows your the kind of women who ';always gets what she wants'; which men can tell, and he's turning the tables on you. And look it worked, lol. I do it all the time.





TWO; To keep him interested you just can't roll over and be his puppet, tease and flirt. Get him a little jealous but not the the point to where he thinks your toying with him. Have sex, and don't use it as a weapon or reward, it's sex you like it just as much as him. I don't know this guy so I don't know what he likes or hates. But theres some ideas