Thursday, August 19, 2010

Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?

I have already talk to police awhile back on this matter according to the state of NE she is of legal age to have consensual sex, I don't think this is right, this man is much old and has targeted my daughter, she is due Oct 1st 2006, I'm still responsible for her until she is 19yrs, to make it worst, he gave her an S.T.D.,if anyone has any referrals or advise please let know I'm at a loss right now and I would be so grateful for some help.Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
In some state's, 16 is the legal age of consent, how ever talk to a DA (not cops) about possible charges of indecent liberties with a minor. She is still considered a minor becuse she is under 18 fed. law. Also when you talk to the DA mension a PFA or protection from abuse order. as an adult you have a responablity to look after your daughter and a PFA (A.K.A restraining order) will force him to stay away from your daughter or face jail time.Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
Please hire a lawyer. Your daughter life is in your hand...... give her a pull out of this evil man :( SUE him!!!
Thats horrible! As long as your daughter admits it was cosentual you cant really do any damage...
I owuld get a lawyer and sew him for all he is worth, or get like really good child support off him. But to be realistic, just talk to your lawyer about your options. Choose the one that you think will help you and your daughter gat through it easier.





I dont think that it is right either, you should be able to do something about it.
Talk to a attorney. You may get him of child rape. The man needs to go to jail let the mans wife know what he did.
move your case to california so you can put his *** to jail


have you talk to an attorney? get legal advice.
You make me sick listening to your parental skills. Maybe you should of been a better parent and this would not have happened . Also it takes two to tango - Mom. If little baby daughter got herself in this mess its her job to get out of it.
First of all TRUST me Im not bashing you but where were you when they were obviously doing the ';act';? I mean unless your daughter is just not nice I would assume they had been seeing each other and led up to this, right? I mean at some point YOU as the parent has to accept responsibility. And know that I mean no disrespect or to try to hurt your feelings but way to often as parents we turn a BLIND eye to our children's behavior, Ive also done this of course my daughter's not pregnant but then again I don't let her go far and Im calling every 15, 30 , 45 min not in that order actually but she NEVER knows when I'll call and give her 5 or 10 min to be home.I do this BECAUSE I also made the mistake of letting my 17 yo son have to much freedom and he and his gf are now expecting their child and she is now 19 SO (see I said we ALL turn a blind eye) but anyhow in alot of states that is the consensual age YES but your state SHOULD have statutory rape laws AS LONG as you ddnt consent to the dating at ANY point, and if you did I would suggest you , your daughter, AND the Father weather it the best way you can. Make damn sure he takes his part. I Understand FULLY how you feel and I see alot of people are bashing the ';father'; and him sleeping with a 16 yo in itself IS definitely wrong BUT why has no one brought up the fact that NO this was not Rape and your daughter OBVIOUSLY participated and at 16 Im more than sure she knew not only what she was doing BUT also the possibilities AND the concequences, she's DEFINITELY not innocent in this u know?
Go to the department of Social Services and try to set up child support. the dept of social services will require him to submit to a paternity test and once paternity is established then he will be responsible for child support as well as caring insurance on the baby.


But just so you know, the down side to this is that the father will then be likely to get visitation rights, and this will most likely not include your daughter. It would be like every other weekend, where he would pick the baby up and keep the baby until a certain time set by a judge. The visitation may not be overnight at first when the baby is so small, but once the baby is off bottle feeding/breast feeding, then it is possible that the father would have overnight visitation with the baby where your daughter would not be with them, but he would have the baby with his wife, if she decides to stay with him after this.


And once paternity is established, he could even go after custody of the baby, by saying that he is married, and that the baby would have a better, more stable life with him and his wife, rather than a single mother not yet out of school. it could get ugly.
If she is of legal age there isn't much you can do about the sex..However you need to make him financially responsible for raising the child..Be sure his name is on the birth certificate and take him to court for child support
my GOD that's terrible.this guy is a jerk i wish i could help maybe someone can give u advice
You should talk to your D.A. there. There has to be a law reguarding your daughters age. Also check about having him arrested for adultry. A lot of states still have this type of law on their books.
Make it known to his wife if it isnt already men like him need help and the laws suck yes at 16 they can consent to sex but your responsable for her screw ups till she 19 makes no sense but its reality...Force him to step and do what he needs to do as for the STD he probably has a few little girls he is messing with check around and ask a few questions there may be a few underage jailbates he is messin with I pretty much doubt your daughter is the first or the last but you might be able to make her pregnancy his final error in judgement if you find a minor he is messin with...Good Luck hun and Congrats on the baby even tho I know it is hard
underage sex is considered as rape.............have it under the rape section
First, you have to blame your daughter for knowingly done this.This cannot happen without knowledge. You have to prove she was raped by that man. You daughter has to say that.


Next, you have to prove that this man is responsible for this, by getting DNA test performed.


You have to think about rehabilitation of the child.


or you have to allow your daughter to become his second wife.


This thing happened because sex is blind.


You cannot control the body language.


Age is nothing to do with sex.


These things happen till human beings live in this on earth.
Study the law becasue with him being married he has violated his oath to his wife. If you can find anything that has to do with emotional strain as well as deceit i am sure it will help. Does the wife know? She can sue him for doing it and HE IS RESPONSIBLE financially for her care and that baby, GET HIM ANYWAY YOU CAN he can't go around getting young girls pregnant while he is married, And the std too. You've got to find a good lawyer, medical bills is also his responsibility
Other then him taking a DNA test and paying child support legally there isn't alot you can do however.... If it was my daughter he would never be able to get anyone pregnant again it might cost me some money and a little jail time but he would pay dearly.. Does his wife know what he has done? His friends?? His employers? Those are some options for payback that doesn't include him losing a ball and you going to jail or costing you money.
Buy the man a pair of cement shoes.
i personally would kill the bastered
see lawyer 16 is under age

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