I have a horrible temper lol..naturally red headed and all :-P i try my best to keep in control and i dont like stupid immature fights n sh!t. so im searching my mind for the right words for the situation to tell her to back off and let us live our lives..but maturely..but still get a strong point across. im just tired of her textin my man pretty much sayin she dont like us being together she wants him,,,but in round about ways..and bout her car n sh!t wantin him to fix it..my first response is to tell her there are magic places around town with magic people and they are known to human as auto mechanics :-o but thats childish. help me yall..pretty please and if ya like cherries on top then your wish is my command lawl.Need some advice on the best approach for slutty girls to back off my man?
As far as I'm concerned this is his responsibility. He should be the one telling her f-off. I've dealt with a girl like that myself. Those kind of girls are like leeches and need to be told off by him they don't listen to gfs if just gives them an excuse to think you are a *****. Talk to him about it let him know how you feel and tell him to put her in her place. Change his phone number if he has to.Need some advice on the best approach for slutty girls to back off my man?
He needs to handle it, and I would sweetly tell him that the way he does sends two messages, one to her and one to you. His words/actions will convey to you and to her what value he places on your feelings and on his relationship with you.
Lawl. You're funny. I love red heads. :]
Sadly, there isn't a civil way to approach this matter.
Especially when dealing with sluts. You have to calmly tell them to back off. If that doesn't work, bust a can of whoop-assery. Haha. Just be very straightforward. :) Best of wishes!
Be blunt. tell her to backoff. He is with YOU, not her or her slutty ways. Tell her you don't like her being in contact with him and trying to hook up with him. If she says you're just jealous, tell her you're simply protecting the one you love. If she still insists on a bit*hfest, just walk away and ignore her. Also talk to him about it. Let him know how much it bothers you and how upset it makes you. If he really cares, he'll do something. maybe not much, but something. Even if it's ignoring her calls or her txts. Sooner or later she'll get the message.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Need advice on this one my ex husband is a crontrolling and possesive man its my third time out fromhim i bee?
its been 7months now and its so hard as i still have feelings for him,I just want to know why do they make you feel like crap he knows how upset i get and now he tells me i changed and i am bad i am just so upset i just feel like going back to him to make him happy and as i said i still love him emotionally not physically what would you guys think of this i am so sick of feeling bad and by the way he got my grown children on his side its so hard i am Living by myself and i don't have any family they died and its so very had to move forward i got a support network but its not like my own husband and kids now i understand why in domestic violence the women go back on average 7 times please any adviceNeed advice on this one my ex husband is a crontrolling and possesive man its my third time out fromhim i bee?
Been there done it. Whats next a punch in the mouth? A slap across the face? A broken nose HMM or maybe death!
THINK about it..YOU Are a damn doormat without a spine girl!
Do me a favor, call the YWCA. They have a support group AND help for women like you ...Trust me I know..without them I would not be alive.Need advice on this one my ex husband is a crontrolling and possesive man its my third time out fromhim i bee?
as you say your growing children
you have move out well keep going, as the first person who answer say get help because as far as I am concern your family is no help to you, maybe they ar shock that for the forst time you are thinking and actng like a person should
Take care
Been there done it. Whats next a punch in the mouth? A slap across the face? A broken nose HMM or maybe death!
THINK about it..YOU Are a damn doormat without a spine girl!
Do me a favor, call the YWCA. They have a support group AND help for women like you ...Trust me I know..without them I would not be alive.Need advice on this one my ex husband is a crontrolling and possesive man its my third time out fromhim i bee?
as you say your growing children
you have move out well keep going, as the first person who answer say get help because as far as I am concern your family is no help to you, maybe they ar shock that for the forst time you are thinking and actng like a person should
Take care
Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
I realize that I knew he was married from the beggining but i continued. Now that things have developed more I feel very guilty and don't know how to end this because I feel something very special for him. I really don't know what his true feeling toward me are but he keeps approaching me more and more. This realationship has been going on for about 5 months but I recently found out something that shocked me guess what his wife is about 4 months pregnant. I just don't understand what he wants from me cause everytime we make out he seems to enjoy it as i do. I dont know if he just wants that or if he truly loves me. I need some advice on how to end this relationship. Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
Just say NO next time he wants to talk to you or get together. Obviously, you were just a toy for him to pick up and drop whenever he wants. He's still having sex with his wife, he must love her. He's not going to leave her for you and if he did, he would do the same to you later. Wrong is wrong. I hope you learned your lesson. If you play with fire, you're gonna get burned.
Edit: If he won't leave you alone, tell him you are going to have a conversation with the wife, that should help.Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
you put yourself in his wife position, being pregnant and all. How would you feel if your husband was sorry enough to cheat on you? and only 1 year of marriage, and their first child. Stop thinking about yourself here, and think about her, and her feelings. This guy loves neither of you, he is just using you because he can and you allow him, and he does not love his wife, because if he did, he would not be cheating on her with you. I would not want to be around when she finds out, and believe me, she will....she probably already suspects something.
Wow. He is your manager?!?! Amazing. And he's been having an affair with you...while his new wife is home, pregnant?!?! Wow, wow, wow. He is scum!
Look, this is more than just a hideous situation, it's also illegal if he has used his position to get you to engage in this affair. Bring it to the attention of HR if the place you work is big enough.
Of course, it goes without saying that you need to end the relationship and cut off all contact...meaning no calls, no emails, no longing looks over the water cooler, nothing, nothing, nothing, no matter what.
It's really, really simple:
Stop taking his calls, don't answer the door, don't e-mail him.
Cut off all contact with him.
All he wants from you is sex--and you KNOW he's also having sex with wifey. He will never leave her for you. Stop letting him use you and find some self respect.
I hope you are really ashamed of yourself. In my opinion, women who see married men are completely amoral and deserve a lonely, loveless future.
What do you get out of having an affair? It will hurt you and his marriage. Regardless, this is wrong! You need to tell him it is over. He is married and he needs to be with his wife. What would you do if you were married and your husband had an affair and with another woman that was pregnant?
if feeling guilty wasnt enough , knowing you could be the cause of his child being born without a daddy there should be enough to walk away , and no im sorry its not your fault alone , it takes two and i would put more blame on him , actually i would go as far as saying he is a total loser !
oh my!! Your question is so similar to mine that I just posted!! Mine doesn't have a pregnant wife but she is desperate to get pregnant and he doesn't want kids right now! Wow!! We should really talk!! I haven't started the actual affair - yet. Well, physically, anyway. But it's coming quick! I guess you would tell me not to go along with it, huh?
Bad, bad bad trouble.
What I would suggest as the best cure is get another man pronto. It's going to be hard to drop this lover if you feel like you'll be alone if you do. Find another single guy and get something going and this married guy will start to become an annoyance to you.
The only way you will know how he feels is ask him, and he might lie to you. It's possible he could love you, there is no way to tell. Tell him you really love him but know it's not going to work out.
If all you do is make out then is just sex.
If you have been getting busy with him for 5 months and his wife is on 4 months pregnant you maybe warming him up for his wife.
Don't end it.
Married men need to get some too. Especially since his wife is preggers.
If if would lessen the guilt, just give him head, and leave the intercourse aside.
Tell him that you know his wife is pregnant and you couldn't possibably go on with your relationship knowing there is a baby on the way. You are doing the right thing. Good luck.
Just tell him you're done: simple as that. You both know you are wrong so he should not be shocked and you owe him no explanation. He is a married man, and you both should be ashamed.
sounds like to me you are going to have to get a new job and tell your man friend that enough is enough. and don't take no for an answer.
He wants his cake and eat it too that's what he wants..And you are letting him do just that..Just break it off with him is not going to leave his wife for you..
Let him know how are you feeling at this moment and see how he react then tell him you want to stop the relationship with him and why.
He 's just another married man who enjoys the thrill of cheating! A PIG!!
All you have to do is say GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE!!
or STAY Home with her!
Or better yet beat it PIG.
Don麓t end it!!! It麓s not ur problem if he has other relationships. Respect him and thus respect urself, only free people deserve happiness.
Here's your answer. Just quit spreading your legs. Then you will find out what he was interested in.
LEAVE HIM
ANYTHING LIKE FRED CLARK FROM DINNINGTON - HE CANNOT KEEP IT IN HIS TROUSERS.
bad....bad....bad...bad.... He must like football teams! oops cheerleading squads and BIG GIRLS!!!
Just say NO next time he wants to talk to you or get together. Obviously, you were just a toy for him to pick up and drop whenever he wants. He's still having sex with his wife, he must love her. He's not going to leave her for you and if he did, he would do the same to you later. Wrong is wrong. I hope you learned your lesson. If you play with fire, you're gonna get burned.
Edit: If he won't leave you alone, tell him you are going to have a conversation with the wife, that should help.Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
you put yourself in his wife position, being pregnant and all. How would you feel if your husband was sorry enough to cheat on you? and only 1 year of marriage, and their first child. Stop thinking about yourself here, and think about her, and her feelings. This guy loves neither of you, he is just using you because he can and you allow him, and he does not love his wife, because if he did, he would not be cheating on her with you. I would not want to be around when she finds out, and believe me, she will....she probably already suspects something.
Wow. He is your manager?!?! Amazing. And he's been having an affair with you...while his new wife is home, pregnant?!?! Wow, wow, wow. He is scum!
Look, this is more than just a hideous situation, it's also illegal if he has used his position to get you to engage in this affair. Bring it to the attention of HR if the place you work is big enough.
Of course, it goes without saying that you need to end the relationship and cut off all contact...meaning no calls, no emails, no longing looks over the water cooler, nothing, nothing, nothing, no matter what.
It's really, really simple:
Stop taking his calls, don't answer the door, don't e-mail him.
Cut off all contact with him.
All he wants from you is sex--and you KNOW he's also having sex with wifey. He will never leave her for you. Stop letting him use you and find some self respect.
I hope you are really ashamed of yourself. In my opinion, women who see married men are completely amoral and deserve a lonely, loveless future.
What do you get out of having an affair? It will hurt you and his marriage. Regardless, this is wrong! You need to tell him it is over. He is married and he needs to be with his wife. What would you do if you were married and your husband had an affair and with another woman that was pregnant?
if feeling guilty wasnt enough , knowing you could be the cause of his child being born without a daddy there should be enough to walk away , and no im sorry its not your fault alone , it takes two and i would put more blame on him , actually i would go as far as saying he is a total loser !
oh my!! Your question is so similar to mine that I just posted!! Mine doesn't have a pregnant wife but she is desperate to get pregnant and he doesn't want kids right now! Wow!! We should really talk!! I haven't started the actual affair - yet. Well, physically, anyway. But it's coming quick! I guess you would tell me not to go along with it, huh?
Bad, bad bad trouble.
What I would suggest as the best cure is get another man pronto. It's going to be hard to drop this lover if you feel like you'll be alone if you do. Find another single guy and get something going and this married guy will start to become an annoyance to you.
The only way you will know how he feels is ask him, and he might lie to you. It's possible he could love you, there is no way to tell. Tell him you really love him but know it's not going to work out.
If all you do is make out then is just sex.
If you have been getting busy with him for 5 months and his wife is on 4 months pregnant you maybe warming him up for his wife.
Don't end it.
Married men need to get some too. Especially since his wife is preggers.
If if would lessen the guilt, just give him head, and leave the intercourse aside.
Tell him that you know his wife is pregnant and you couldn't possibably go on with your relationship knowing there is a baby on the way. You are doing the right thing. Good luck.
Just tell him you're done: simple as that. You both know you are wrong so he should not be shocked and you owe him no explanation. He is a married man, and you both should be ashamed.
sounds like to me you are going to have to get a new job and tell your man friend that enough is enough. and don't take no for an answer.
He wants his cake and eat it too that's what he wants..And you are letting him do just that..Just break it off with him is not going to leave his wife for you..
Let him know how are you feeling at this moment and see how he react then tell him you want to stop the relationship with him and why.
He 's just another married man who enjoys the thrill of cheating! A PIG!!
All you have to do is say GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE!!
or STAY Home with her!
Or better yet beat it PIG.
Don麓t end it!!! It麓s not ur problem if he has other relationships. Respect him and thus respect urself, only free people deserve happiness.
Here's your answer. Just quit spreading your legs. Then you will find out what he was interested in.
LEAVE HIM
ANYTHING LIKE FRED CLARK FROM DINNINGTON - HE CANNOT KEEP IT IN HIS TROUSERS.
bad....bad....bad...bad.... He must like football teams! oops cheerleading squads and BIG GIRLS!!!
Advice on become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man. PLEASE! ANY HELP?
I'm a 16 year old guy that is 5 ft. 6in. tall and weighs 103 pounds.
(PLEASE ANSWER AT LEAST ONE QUESTION) (#2 I REALLY NEED)
1. What can I do to become strong and build muscle mass (especially in the arms).
2. I also want to work myself and exercise just like I was training for the army so I can become stronger, more disciplined, braver, and tougher! Suggest some websites if you can.
3. You can suggest anything else that I can do to become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man.Advice on become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man. PLEASE! ANY HELP?
1.Go to the gym or lift weights at home
#2You are the only one who can discipline yourself braveness is up to you suck it up and be a man and tougher is answered in #1
#1 can't really help in hotter some are born that way some can only ask the girl they like then it doesn't matter if your ugly cute or hotAdvice on become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man. PLEASE! ANY HELP?
you should find a local gym near you and hire a nutritionist.
eating healthy and exercise while definitely give you the look you want a deserve.
:)
Start taking a martial art. It will do wonders for the self discipline, strength and courage.
ok so here are some suggestions::
1). Go to the gym! Or evan if you can afford it get a personnel trainer.
2). I was doing a little research for you and i found this site check it out:%26lt;%26gt;http://www.diynetwork.com/diy/hobbies/article/0,2033,DIY_13951_2271282,00.html%26gt;
3). And now about the hotness factor, I would say make sure you keep up your appearance. Get the latest clothing from the hottest shops. Bye a couple flat hats a few plaid baggy shorts, and your in!
And to be braver just stand up to who or what ever is in your way, don't be scared face your fear. And to be tougher, Im not saying to be a bully but you gotta make sure that everybody knows when you come around they better back off and don't mess with you. To be more disciplined ive learned that the best thing to do is just go with the flow, meaning do what your told the first time and disregard any other thoughts you might have about the subject and only put in your head what you are told to do. So just do these easy steps and in no time you ll find yourself a better young man physically an d mentally.
So if you follow this and it works please tell me because I want to add it to my blog. Ok, good luck!blackheads eraser
(PLEASE ANSWER AT LEAST ONE QUESTION) (#2 I REALLY NEED)
1. What can I do to become strong and build muscle mass (especially in the arms).
2. I also want to work myself and exercise just like I was training for the army so I can become stronger, more disciplined, braver, and tougher! Suggest some websites if you can.
3. You can suggest anything else that I can do to become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man.Advice on become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man. PLEASE! ANY HELP?
1.Go to the gym or lift weights at home
#2You are the only one who can discipline yourself braveness is up to you suck it up and be a man and tougher is answered in #1
#1 can't really help in hotter some are born that way some can only ask the girl they like then it doesn't matter if your ugly cute or hotAdvice on become a tougher, braver, stronger, more disciplined, and hotter young man. PLEASE! ANY HELP?
you should find a local gym near you and hire a nutritionist.
eating healthy and exercise while definitely give you the look you want a deserve.
:)
Start taking a martial art. It will do wonders for the self discipline, strength and courage.
ok so here are some suggestions::
1). Go to the gym! Or evan if you can afford it get a personnel trainer.
2). I was doing a little research for you and i found this site check it out:%26lt;%26gt;http://www.diynetwork.com/diy/hobbies/article/0,2033,DIY_13951_2271282,00.html%26gt;
3). And now about the hotness factor, I would say make sure you keep up your appearance. Get the latest clothing from the hottest shops. Bye a couple flat hats a few plaid baggy shorts, and your in!
And to be braver just stand up to who or what ever is in your way, don't be scared face your fear. And to be tougher, Im not saying to be a bully but you gotta make sure that everybody knows when you come around they better back off and don't mess with you. To be more disciplined ive learned that the best thing to do is just go with the flow, meaning do what your told the first time and disregard any other thoughts you might have about the subject and only put in your head what you are told to do. So just do these easy steps and in no time you ll find yourself a better young man physically an d mentally.
So if you follow this and it works please tell me because I want to add it to my blog. Ok, good luck!
I need advice on how to control my urges of going back and forth from one man to another.?
I have this serious problem wiith thinking i am happy in hte relationship that i am in but then a guy comes along saying he can treat me alot better than that so l just keep looking for another guy and soo on. I want to have a family but every guy that i get with already has a child or several children and doesn't want one with me and that hurtsI need advice on how to control my urges of going back and forth from one man to another.?
I guess the first thing you could start with is dating someone that has no ';attachments'; so to speak. No kids, no ex-wives, nothing. This way it would be a new start for the both of you which tends to be less boring and the urge of looking for someone else will fade away. (if this is the right guy of course)
If it doesn't work out, try again and once you find you're match, the urge will be gone.
Hope this helps.I need advice on how to control my urges of going back and forth from one man to another.?
Try, try again.
im like that 2, but its in your control. You have to sit and think if thats what u really want. Do you really want to keep living your life that way? If you think about, if u keep doing this you are just setting up your heart to become hurt. You need to learn self-control. Maybe you should even stop dating 4 awhile. Get your self together and then start over. I think you should write a list of things you want in 1)a man, 2)in a relationship, 3)in yourself, and what you want in life. This should get you thinking. It wouldnt hurt to think about yourself instead of someone else. Hope I helped.
you'll find the right one..just don't give up
Is this the love that you are looking for but seem to miss from a man:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
well stop tryna get a man, and spend that time in between to get to know yourself! that should be YOU time, so try and have alot of girls nite out @ home and forget the guy talk excluding models, actors, etc.....! Gotta have some excitement right!!!!! well, that way you will know yourself and eventually find the right guy thru know the right grl...YOURSELF!!!! HOPE IT HELPS!!!
i have the some problem but its bad cuz for some reason guys get too hooked up on me so i have tons of stockers. am worried.
Variety is the 'spice of life' ...
Well, first off, what you want isn't A guy, it's THE guy - and that takes time to figure out. If you're continually looking over your shoulder for something better, either you're not really ready to commit, or you're picking guys you instintively know you can't commit to.
What do the guys you pick have in common (besides you?). You mention that they already have a child, or several, for one thing. It'd be worth your while to list the guys you've been with and what they have in common - personality traits, lifestyle choices, everything. See if a pattern emerges.
The other thing they have in common is you. Are you afraid to commit? Did your parents have a happy, stable, successful relationship? Try to figure out if there's a pattern to your relationships. Is there a certain point at which you start looking around? If so, what is it?
If you go out hunting every day and don't bag your deer, then either you aren't really committed to catching a deer, or you're hunting in the wrong place. Having a successful relationship is part you, part him - it takes two people who are committed to the relationship and a future together. It sounds like you've never had either one, so it's time to ask yourself if this is truly what you want, and if it is, what you're doing that sabotages your success. Good luck!
Stop dating just to be dating...you don't have to always be in a relationship...learn to make yourself happy, and then you'll be in a better place to be a good partner for someone else...
...have standards, stop settling, and don't get involved with someone unless you really dig them...then it won't be so easy for someone else to come along and offer you something better...
Well try dating someone with no kids, and take ure time with it.
find a nice guy who loves you, if he trully loves you he wouldn't mind having a child with you!!!!!
good luck!!!!!!!!
I guess the first thing you could start with is dating someone that has no ';attachments'; so to speak. No kids, no ex-wives, nothing. This way it would be a new start for the both of you which tends to be less boring and the urge of looking for someone else will fade away. (if this is the right guy of course)
If it doesn't work out, try again and once you find you're match, the urge will be gone.
Hope this helps.I need advice on how to control my urges of going back and forth from one man to another.?
Try, try again.
im like that 2, but its in your control. You have to sit and think if thats what u really want. Do you really want to keep living your life that way? If you think about, if u keep doing this you are just setting up your heart to become hurt. You need to learn self-control. Maybe you should even stop dating 4 awhile. Get your self together and then start over. I think you should write a list of things you want in 1)a man, 2)in a relationship, 3)in yourself, and what you want in life. This should get you thinking. It wouldnt hurt to think about yourself instead of someone else. Hope I helped.
you'll find the right one..just don't give up
Is this the love that you are looking for but seem to miss from a man:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
well stop tryna get a man, and spend that time in between to get to know yourself! that should be YOU time, so try and have alot of girls nite out @ home and forget the guy talk excluding models, actors, etc.....! Gotta have some excitement right!!!!! well, that way you will know yourself and eventually find the right guy thru know the right grl...YOURSELF!!!! HOPE IT HELPS!!!
i have the some problem but its bad cuz for some reason guys get too hooked up on me so i have tons of stockers. am worried.
Variety is the 'spice of life' ...
Well, first off, what you want isn't A guy, it's THE guy - and that takes time to figure out. If you're continually looking over your shoulder for something better, either you're not really ready to commit, or you're picking guys you instintively know you can't commit to.
What do the guys you pick have in common (besides you?). You mention that they already have a child, or several, for one thing. It'd be worth your while to list the guys you've been with and what they have in common - personality traits, lifestyle choices, everything. See if a pattern emerges.
The other thing they have in common is you. Are you afraid to commit? Did your parents have a happy, stable, successful relationship? Try to figure out if there's a pattern to your relationships. Is there a certain point at which you start looking around? If so, what is it?
If you go out hunting every day and don't bag your deer, then either you aren't really committed to catching a deer, or you're hunting in the wrong place. Having a successful relationship is part you, part him - it takes two people who are committed to the relationship and a future together. It sounds like you've never had either one, so it's time to ask yourself if this is truly what you want, and if it is, what you're doing that sabotages your success. Good luck!
Stop dating just to be dating...you don't have to always be in a relationship...learn to make yourself happy, and then you'll be in a better place to be a good partner for someone else...
...have standards, stop settling, and don't get involved with someone unless you really dig them...then it won't be so easy for someone else to come along and offer you something better...
Well try dating someone with no kids, and take ure time with it.
find a nice guy who loves you, if he trully loves you he wouldn't mind having a child with you!!!!!
good luck!!!!!!!!
Do you have any advices on a rage man?
I feeling very furious right now. I might do something crazy later on tonight like hit someone in the face, cuss them out, or commit suicide. What to do? Dumb advices I am not feeling it.Do you have any advices on a rage man?
Follow my lead.
Imagine a peaceful place,nice and alone...
Inhale deeply...
hold breath for 3 seconds...
breath out slowly...
reapeat until your ready...
Now that we are calm...
think of a solution to your anger...
violence is not the answer...
talk about it to someone you trust...
like a friend...
family...
even a pet can help...Do you have any advices on a rage man?
i feel the same way that you do right now no lie. To get it out im goonna go scream into a pillow punch it scream some more and run around...
Punching bag or weights
gym
Follow my lead.
Imagine a peaceful place,nice and alone...
Inhale deeply...
hold breath for 3 seconds...
breath out slowly...
reapeat until your ready...
Now that we are calm...
think of a solution to your anger...
violence is not the answer...
talk about it to someone you trust...
like a friend...
family...
even a pet can help...Do you have any advices on a rage man?
i feel the same way that you do right now no lie. To get it out im goonna go scream into a pillow punch it scream some more and run around...
Punching bag or weights
gym
I need advice on what should i do when i go to the man who tried to rob me?
This morning i went to the gas station and ask the gas station guy to put $20 on my car and he did he gave me the receipt i paid with my debit card and i usually throw those receipts out but this time i decided to keep it. then when i got to work i checked my bank account and it showed me that the gas station charged me $30 dollars is only a $10 dollar difference but still i can only imagine how many people have gone through this scam. what i did was print out the receipt from my bank and i have the one they gave me, i am planning to go back during my lunch break what should i do if they refuse to give me back my money???I need advice on what should i do when i go to the man who tried to rob me?
wait a couple days. sometimes the dredit card company automatically charges extra until the transaction is posted to your account. right now it is still pending. If it still says 30 dollars then take actionI need advice on what should i do when i go to the man who tried to rob me?
how much was the transaction fee? if it wasnt 10 bucks id speak to the guy and want the money back u have the proof
make a photocopy. and if u dont get the 10 bucks back ask to speak with his manager or the person in charge and demand your money back. if that doest work there should be somewhere to complain try asking like at the police station or the council in that area.
good luck
You should not confront the gas station. You should call your bank and tell them you were overcharged. The bank will handle the transaction. That's why you are their customer. And I don't think anybody tried to ';rob you'; it could have been a mistake.
take it to the cops? or someone who can give you leagl advise on it.
Either way you need to report this to the police. It's not about the $10.00 it's like you said HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE WERE SCAMMED?
It's standard practice for gas stations to hold extra funds when you use a debit card.
It'll be released in a day or so.
No worries.
wait a couple days. sometimes the dredit card company automatically charges extra until the transaction is posted to your account. right now it is still pending. If it still says 30 dollars then take actionI need advice on what should i do when i go to the man who tried to rob me?
how much was the transaction fee? if it wasnt 10 bucks id speak to the guy and want the money back u have the proof
make a photocopy. and if u dont get the 10 bucks back ask to speak with his manager or the person in charge and demand your money back. if that doest work there should be somewhere to complain try asking like at the police station or the council in that area.
good luck
You should not confront the gas station. You should call your bank and tell them you were overcharged. The bank will handle the transaction. That's why you are their customer. And I don't think anybody tried to ';rob you'; it could have been a mistake.
take it to the cops? or someone who can give you leagl advise on it.
Either way you need to report this to the police. It's not about the $10.00 it's like you said HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE WERE SCAMMED?
It's standard practice for gas stations to hold extra funds when you use a debit card.
It'll be released in a day or so.
No worries.
I want to cheat on my man of 5 years? Any advice, ladies??
I met this new guy at the gym that I love to get with.I want to cheat on my man of 5 years? Any advice, ladies??
You ungrateful...
What goes around comes around.
Why do you ruin things for yourself?I want to cheat on my man of 5 years? Any advice, ladies??
dump ur bloke 1st! I won't say what you are!
Ask yourself this....Is the gym guy worth throwing 5 years down the drain?
Would you be able to live with yourself knowing that you cheated on your boyfirend of 5 years.
If he found out would he stay with you?
DONT DO IT!!!
you should really think about what you happen if you do that. do you really like the new guy alot? will you be happier than before if you go for it?
If your mans been cheatin' on you then go right ahead.
its obvious that you not happy with your present guy.
Go take a cold shower !!
just remember that every action has a reaction and if you get caught, nobody else is to blame...
so go ahead and cheat but if you get caught by your man don't get all upset when he dumps your azz
Split up first dumbo.
Yes my advise is get a soul and a moral backbone.
End your relationship so you can be free to see whomever you want.
oh girl... cheating is a nasty business. why dont you just break up with the guy you are currently with so you can get with the hottie at the gym?
you are not married so go for it
I hope someone down the road rips your heart out and cheats on you, your the skidmarks in the underwear of society, people like you discust me. Burn in hell.
so you dont want to break up with your man first ,is it because in case it wont work out with the other one you still have your man than go ahead do what to got to do it hope it's worse it
why cheat? why dont u just end it with ur man then go for the new one? or are u one of them ppl who doesnt care about hurting another person! well the truth is u want to cheat cos if it dont work with the new guy...u still have the man u been with longer,ur using him.....such a bad person.
Take a step back. You're just really excited about something new, some new attraction.
But would it be worth it? One dalliance, one affair of the most basic sex over FIVE years of trust, love and general partnership? Cuz at the end of it,you will have to choose. Youwon't get both.
first make sure he is hung (or what's the point)
second use a condom no excuses !
third keep it to yourself don't get that silly urge to tell some one all that means is you want to get caught
have fun!
ah a black girl cheating....this has never happened before
You ungrateful...
What goes around comes around.
Why do you ruin things for yourself?I want to cheat on my man of 5 years? Any advice, ladies??
dump ur bloke 1st! I won't say what you are!
Ask yourself this....Is the gym guy worth throwing 5 years down the drain?
Would you be able to live with yourself knowing that you cheated on your boyfirend of 5 years.
If he found out would he stay with you?
DONT DO IT!!!
you should really think about what you happen if you do that. do you really like the new guy alot? will you be happier than before if you go for it?
If your mans been cheatin' on you then go right ahead.
its obvious that you not happy with your present guy.
Go take a cold shower !!
just remember that every action has a reaction and if you get caught, nobody else is to blame...
so go ahead and cheat but if you get caught by your man don't get all upset when he dumps your azz
Split up first dumbo.
Yes my advise is get a soul and a moral backbone.
End your relationship so you can be free to see whomever you want.
oh girl... cheating is a nasty business. why dont you just break up with the guy you are currently with so you can get with the hottie at the gym?
you are not married so go for it
I hope someone down the road rips your heart out and cheats on you, your the skidmarks in the underwear of society, people like you discust me. Burn in hell.
so you dont want to break up with your man first ,is it because in case it wont work out with the other one you still have your man than go ahead do what to got to do it hope it's worse it
why cheat? why dont u just end it with ur man then go for the new one? or are u one of them ppl who doesnt care about hurting another person! well the truth is u want to cheat cos if it dont work with the new guy...u still have the man u been with longer,ur using him.....such a bad person.
Take a step back. You're just really excited about something new, some new attraction.
But would it be worth it? One dalliance, one affair of the most basic sex over FIVE years of trust, love and general partnership? Cuz at the end of it,you will have to choose. Youwon't get both.
first make sure he is hung (or what's the point)
second use a condom no excuses !
third keep it to yourself don't get that silly urge to tell some one all that means is you want to get caught
have fun!
ah a black girl cheating....this has never happened before
Ladies i am 18 yrs old and i am the advice man thats my actual job but i need help on finding out what yall re
I love my job working with guys and girls giving them advice but mostly i have problems with guys they come up to me and say youre good looking how do you get girls true thing is there aint no such thing as a perfect man Ladies help me or e-mail me personaly at girl_boyadvice@yahoo.comLadies i am 18 yrs old and i am the advice man thats my actual job but i need help on finding out what yall re
You need to get a new job cause you don't even know how to use the spell checker!Ladies i am 18 yrs old and i am the advice man thats my actual job but i need help on finding out what yall re
what your question again?
did i miss your question?
Hey!!! U snd exactly like the crimal described in AMERICA'S MOST WANTED SERIAL KILLERS; guess u after ur next victim .....ha ha , u better start running cos I've already called the police.
hey i email me back sexy i like to get to know 2 if u know wat i mean
YOUR A HOMO! GET A LIFE! *****!blackheads eraser
You need to get a new job cause you don't even know how to use the spell checker!Ladies i am 18 yrs old and i am the advice man thats my actual job but i need help on finding out what yall re
what your question again?
did i miss your question?
Hey!!! U snd exactly like the crimal described in AMERICA'S MOST WANTED SERIAL KILLERS; guess u after ur next victim .....ha ha , u better start running cos I've already called the police.
hey i email me back sexy i like to get to know 2 if u know wat i mean
YOUR A HOMO! GET A LIFE! *****!
I cheated on my fiance with a married man, Advice please?
also, the fact i cheated does not mean i dont love my ex, iv never ever done this. I just wish it didnt happen in the first place and I would not be so torn.I cheated on my fiance with a married man, Advice please?
well first of all i think your just a terrible person, nowhere in there did you say ';oh its wrong because i slept with a married man and his poor wife has no idea'; even though you say its wrong, you only say its wrong because it has complicated YOUR life. you have destroyed several peoples lives in the process. If i were you (and i pray i am never that cruel) i would get off my pedestool for a moment, look around, and focus my eyes on the trail of emotional destruction that ';just happens'; to follow you everywhere. For your ex's sake i hope you dont go back to him.. and as for you and this married man, i hope you end up together so that you can both trample all over eachothers hearts. though that would only happen if there was such a thing as justice, right?
that being said the best thing to do would be realise this man will never leave his wife, and that your ex deserves better.. and start over. be single for a while and then if you can ACTUALLY commit, try with someone new.
for the people you've wronged, i hope you find a way to make it right. come clean. as for you i seriously hope that you take some bit of moral intelligence from this expierience and never hurt people the way you have ever again.I cheated on my fiance with a married man, Advice please?
He will not leave his wife for you. If he was going to do that he would have done it already.
You have no idea what his marriage is really like and what his feelings really are, for you or for her. All you know is what he tells you. And since we've established that he lies to his wife, the woman he loved enough to marry and loves enough to go back home to every day (the woman he loves more than you, in other words), whyever would you think he is being honest with you? Get real! He's telling you - and her - whatever he thinks you need to hear in order to get what he wants. And so far, it's working.
I think you are asking the wrong question. ';Which of these two men should I concentrate on?'; is a total red herring. Neither of them is right for you. You need to concentrate on yourself and what you want out of life in the long term.
1. The married man - is married, and in any case he is a cheater. You don't want to be in the wife's position, do you? It doesn't sound like a place I'd like to be. You are fooling yourself if you think he would become a different man if he had you to go home to instead of her.
2. The boyfriend - obviously isn't the right man for you because if he was then you wouldn't be in this position. Yes people do have the occasional fling while drunk and regret it afterwards, especially when they are young and stupid. But that isn't what you did. You had an ongoing affair. Not just once and then wished you hadn't. Again and again, with all the lies (even if it was just lying by omission) and deceit that went with it. If you'd really loved your boyfriend, you couldn't have done that. You just couldn't.
I'm sure you love him in an ';I've been with you for five years, we have fun together and you're a great guy'; sense, but you don't love him in the sense of ';I'd never do anything to hurt you'; because... well, that ain't true, is it? That's the sort of love you need in order to marry someone (if you want a proper marriage), and you don't feel it for this guy.
Be straight with yourself here - if the married man had left his wife on the same day you left your boyfriend, would you even be considering going back to the boyfriend? I don't think you would. I think you are using him as a fall-back, and that's not nice and it's not fair and - more importantly from a practical point of view - it isn't going to work for you in the long term.
Whatever he was giving you it clearly wasn't enough. I don't mean sex, but everything, the whole package. It left you with something missing, something which you can't even articulate. In other words, he isn't the one you can spend your life with and be properly happy.
You did the right thing finishing with the boyfriend. Better late than never, and with luck he will never find out the real reason (I assume you have not told him).
You ought to break things off with the married man as well. I bet you don't, but you ought to and you will look back on this and wish you had. It cannot end well. Think about it - what's the ';happily ever after'; ending going to be? I can't think of a truly happy one, even if you do discount the wife's feelings entirely. This man is not a keeper.
Eventually, you're either going to get caught (in which case you will get ALL the blame), or he will find someone else and either dump you or carry on seeing you and not tell you (and you might get an STD - nice!), or you will wise up and put an end to it. That's what I predict in your future with Mr Married. Take the last option, and do it before the decision gets taken out of your hands. If he really loves you, it will be the trigger he needs to do something about it. But I bet he doesn't. Sorry.
You've just come out of a long relationship. You are not the same person that you were when you went into it. Take some time out for yourself, find out who you are and what you want. Give it six months and get some perspective.
Good luck with it!
Honestly you really should leave this married guy alone and go to your ex and talk to him. First tell him about what you have down and leave it up to him if he wants you or not. That's your best bet because if this married guy leaves his wife it won't work if he marries you, because first his wife will be heartbroken and if he had and affiar with you what makes you thing he won't do it again?
there is no way that the married guy will divorvce his wife ..so stop fooling around with him and go back to ur bf..he loves u ..and trust me there are small issues between every couple ...so go for ur bf ...
if he was gonna leave his wife he so would have done so by now! he is leading you on and is a coward he hasnt got the guts to tell his wife TRUST me if he was gonna tell her he would have by nw, go back to your boyfriend if he is willing to give you another chance he must be really nice the other guy just wants to have his cake and eat it, your better than that
Let's clear up one thing here girl.... yes, it does mean that you don't love him....otherwise you would never have cheated. You also have no respect for him....again, because you wouldn't have cheated. So spare us your torrent of bullsh*t saying otherwise. You cheated... You made a conscious decision to f*ck another man.....now pay the price. I have absolutely no sympathy for women like you. I hope your ex bf leaves you lying in the dirt...cause that's where people like you belong.
You need to do one thing.
Really search your heart and ask your self why you cheated.
It may be deep down you really want out.
think about it.
I hope he had a huge peenatha because if it was so small that he would pis-s on his balls then its a sorry waste and you should become a dy-ke
Dump the married guy, he will probably cheat on you eventually because he is not a faithful guy.
But then again, neither are you.
My advice to you is to try and patch things up with your non-married boyfriend. Be honest with him about what has been going on, and be prepared for him not to want you back, because he might not and has every right to say no.
I would say go with your ex cuz he loves you and the other one prob will never leave his wife and if he does I don't see it working leave the married man and get your man back ur ex.
stay with ur ex.
Here's the simple one instead of acting like a drama queen
Tell the truth
And
The married man obviously does love his wife
Or he wouldn't still be with her
Stop fooling yourself
It's a fling and he's probably bored of marriage
why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free if he cheats on his wife wat the **** makes you think he wont do it to YOU! he wont leave his wife wake up girl
Yes let's completely ignore the wife of this married man... and focus all our energy on the tramp doing her husband... poor lady... my advice is close your legs and get some help... sickening how little respect women have for one another... if you stay with this ';man'; then yes you will be hurt and honestly you deserve it... and your boyfriend is too good for you (not too bright to still pursue you) but still too good
IF this guy leaves his wife-what makes you think he won't do the exact same thing to you as he's doing to her? You had a b/f-why go for another woman's guy? That's selfish-how would you like it if your b/f had an affair with another girl?
You need to break off with the married one-anyone who cheats on their partner to be with you isn't worth your time and effort-they will do it again-to you.
You need some time on your own before you get back with your ex to sort your head out and decide what you really want-he may not be able to trust you for a long time
What is wrong with having a bit on the side? You must need loads of sex or else you wouldn't have bothered. If you don't get enough of one guy then get a bit on the side from another. No harm done.
well first of all i think your just a terrible person, nowhere in there did you say ';oh its wrong because i slept with a married man and his poor wife has no idea'; even though you say its wrong, you only say its wrong because it has complicated YOUR life. you have destroyed several peoples lives in the process. If i were you (and i pray i am never that cruel) i would get off my pedestool for a moment, look around, and focus my eyes on the trail of emotional destruction that ';just happens'; to follow you everywhere. For your ex's sake i hope you dont go back to him.. and as for you and this married man, i hope you end up together so that you can both trample all over eachothers hearts. though that would only happen if there was such a thing as justice, right?
that being said the best thing to do would be realise this man will never leave his wife, and that your ex deserves better.. and start over. be single for a while and then if you can ACTUALLY commit, try with someone new.
for the people you've wronged, i hope you find a way to make it right. come clean. as for you i seriously hope that you take some bit of moral intelligence from this expierience and never hurt people the way you have ever again.I cheated on my fiance with a married man, Advice please?
He will not leave his wife for you. If he was going to do that he would have done it already.
You have no idea what his marriage is really like and what his feelings really are, for you or for her. All you know is what he tells you. And since we've established that he lies to his wife, the woman he loved enough to marry and loves enough to go back home to every day (the woman he loves more than you, in other words), whyever would you think he is being honest with you? Get real! He's telling you - and her - whatever he thinks you need to hear in order to get what he wants. And so far, it's working.
I think you are asking the wrong question. ';Which of these two men should I concentrate on?'; is a total red herring. Neither of them is right for you. You need to concentrate on yourself and what you want out of life in the long term.
1. The married man - is married, and in any case he is a cheater. You don't want to be in the wife's position, do you? It doesn't sound like a place I'd like to be. You are fooling yourself if you think he would become a different man if he had you to go home to instead of her.
2. The boyfriend - obviously isn't the right man for you because if he was then you wouldn't be in this position. Yes people do have the occasional fling while drunk and regret it afterwards, especially when they are young and stupid. But that isn't what you did. You had an ongoing affair. Not just once and then wished you hadn't. Again and again, with all the lies (even if it was just lying by omission) and deceit that went with it. If you'd really loved your boyfriend, you couldn't have done that. You just couldn't.
I'm sure you love him in an ';I've been with you for five years, we have fun together and you're a great guy'; sense, but you don't love him in the sense of ';I'd never do anything to hurt you'; because... well, that ain't true, is it? That's the sort of love you need in order to marry someone (if you want a proper marriage), and you don't feel it for this guy.
Be straight with yourself here - if the married man had left his wife on the same day you left your boyfriend, would you even be considering going back to the boyfriend? I don't think you would. I think you are using him as a fall-back, and that's not nice and it's not fair and - more importantly from a practical point of view - it isn't going to work for you in the long term.
Whatever he was giving you it clearly wasn't enough. I don't mean sex, but everything, the whole package. It left you with something missing, something which you can't even articulate. In other words, he isn't the one you can spend your life with and be properly happy.
You did the right thing finishing with the boyfriend. Better late than never, and with luck he will never find out the real reason (I assume you have not told him).
You ought to break things off with the married man as well. I bet you don't, but you ought to and you will look back on this and wish you had. It cannot end well. Think about it - what's the ';happily ever after'; ending going to be? I can't think of a truly happy one, even if you do discount the wife's feelings entirely. This man is not a keeper.
Eventually, you're either going to get caught (in which case you will get ALL the blame), or he will find someone else and either dump you or carry on seeing you and not tell you (and you might get an STD - nice!), or you will wise up and put an end to it. That's what I predict in your future with Mr Married. Take the last option, and do it before the decision gets taken out of your hands. If he really loves you, it will be the trigger he needs to do something about it. But I bet he doesn't. Sorry.
You've just come out of a long relationship. You are not the same person that you were when you went into it. Take some time out for yourself, find out who you are and what you want. Give it six months and get some perspective.
Good luck with it!
Honestly you really should leave this married guy alone and go to your ex and talk to him. First tell him about what you have down and leave it up to him if he wants you or not. That's your best bet because if this married guy leaves his wife it won't work if he marries you, because first his wife will be heartbroken and if he had and affiar with you what makes you thing he won't do it again?
there is no way that the married guy will divorvce his wife ..so stop fooling around with him and go back to ur bf..he loves u ..and trust me there are small issues between every couple ...so go for ur bf ...
if he was gonna leave his wife he so would have done so by now! he is leading you on and is a coward he hasnt got the guts to tell his wife TRUST me if he was gonna tell her he would have by nw, go back to your boyfriend if he is willing to give you another chance he must be really nice the other guy just wants to have his cake and eat it, your better than that
Let's clear up one thing here girl.... yes, it does mean that you don't love him....otherwise you would never have cheated. You also have no respect for him....again, because you wouldn't have cheated. So spare us your torrent of bullsh*t saying otherwise. You cheated... You made a conscious decision to f*ck another man.....now pay the price. I have absolutely no sympathy for women like you. I hope your ex bf leaves you lying in the dirt...cause that's where people like you belong.
You need to do one thing.
Really search your heart and ask your self why you cheated.
It may be deep down you really want out.
think about it.
I hope he had a huge peenatha because if it was so small that he would pis-s on his balls then its a sorry waste and you should become a dy-ke
Dump the married guy, he will probably cheat on you eventually because he is not a faithful guy.
But then again, neither are you.
My advice to you is to try and patch things up with your non-married boyfriend. Be honest with him about what has been going on, and be prepared for him not to want you back, because he might not and has every right to say no.
I would say go with your ex cuz he loves you and the other one prob will never leave his wife and if he does I don't see it working leave the married man and get your man back ur ex.
stay with ur ex.
Here's the simple one instead of acting like a drama queen
Tell the truth
And
The married man obviously does love his wife
Or he wouldn't still be with her
Stop fooling yourself
It's a fling and he's probably bored of marriage
why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free if he cheats on his wife wat the **** makes you think he wont do it to YOU! he wont leave his wife wake up girl
Yes let's completely ignore the wife of this married man... and focus all our energy on the tramp doing her husband... poor lady... my advice is close your legs and get some help... sickening how little respect women have for one another... if you stay with this ';man'; then yes you will be hurt and honestly you deserve it... and your boyfriend is too good for you (not too bright to still pursue you) but still too good
IF this guy leaves his wife-what makes you think he won't do the exact same thing to you as he's doing to her? You had a b/f-why go for another woman's guy? That's selfish-how would you like it if your b/f had an affair with another girl?
You need to break off with the married one-anyone who cheats on their partner to be with you isn't worth your time and effort-they will do it again-to you.
You need some time on your own before you get back with your ex to sort your head out and decide what you really want-he may not be able to trust you for a long time
What is wrong with having a bit on the side? You must need loads of sex or else you wouldn't have bothered. If you don't get enough of one guy then get a bit on the side from another. No harm done.
I need some advice my friend was talking this man on a internet dating site he is in his 40's and she is in
her 20's anyway she didnt meet this man, for some reason (her grandmother died) and anyway this man has turned really weird he has told her he cant find her or her kids details etc anywhere he has even looked for her dads details and he has said he can trace her mobile number...my friend is really scared she has a 5 year old kid etc....i mean why the hell would he do that when they have never met, he admitted he hacked into his ex g/f email account etc AND he thinks its acceptable, i have told her to steer clear but this man is weird phoning her like a million times a day his txts etc what should she do?I need some advice my friend was talking this man on a internet dating site he is in his 40's and she is in
ok..first.. get rid of all conections. her telephone... needs changed everything... to disappear. contact the dating site. file a complaint... with local police...(SEE if they have an internet investigation dept) keep close tabs on five yr old. reaffirm at school that no one picks up child or visits except you. i would take this as extremely serious. things are in the news everyday... about this. she should also learn a lesson from this..especially having a child... not to be so free..with phone numbers... info....etc.I need some advice my friend was talking this man on a internet dating site he is in his 40's and she is in
Get your friend to report him to the site she met him on and go straight to the police before something really bad happens. Get her to change her sim card on her mobile and her house phone and her e-mail addy.
report him to the dating site as a stalker and block him
call the police, this is creepy
ok..first.. get rid of all conections. her telephone... needs changed everything... to disappear. contact the dating site. file a complaint... with local police...(SEE if they have an internet investigation dept) keep close tabs on five yr old. reaffirm at school that no one picks up child or visits except you. i would take this as extremely serious. things are in the news everyday... about this. she should also learn a lesson from this..especially having a child... not to be so free..with phone numbers... info....etc.I need some advice my friend was talking this man on a internet dating site he is in his 40's and she is in
Get your friend to report him to the site she met him on and go straight to the police before something really bad happens. Get her to change her sim card on her mobile and her house phone and her e-mail addy.
report him to the dating site as a stalker and block him
call the police, this is creepy
27 year old needs advice about calling a man up on the phone?
Okay, met a man last week at a construction site we both worked on. He was very smooth, it took me about 2 minutes after he walked away to realize that he was trying to pick me up lol!! that's how good he was with the pick-up line. But I flirted back a little too. He saw me again a few hours later and we talked for about 30 minutes just standing there. Then he was called to work and had to leave real quick. But before he left he asks 'do you want my phone number?' Of course I said yes. I was interested so I called him the next night after traveling home 3 hours from the site. I was exhausted and so was he but we talked for 2 hours, some getting to know you questions, but not entirely. He asked me what I was doing this week, and asked if he could call again. And I said he could call any time-- real enthusiastic too. Okay, so it's Thursday night, no phone call. Should I just expect that he was thinking he would call in a week? Or should I believe he may not be interested? I don't know if I should call, since i was the one who called first. I don't want to be the one initiating all the time. I have done that i the past, and I came across too strong, so I have learned that the man should initiate. What should I do and think?27 year old needs advice about calling a man up on the phone?
it don't matter who call who.. unless he is married .. I take my ring off when i work (safety thing). so it is ok to call him but anything past dinner is a mistake till you learn more about him. If your in a rush he might take you as a easy lay and just want to have sex and that is it .. So it all depends on what your looking for. just make sure a wife is not going to pop out with 5 kids ..asking why are you sleeping with my daddy ? 27 year old needs advice about calling a man up on the phone?
i think ur 27 ...grow up
it don't matter who call who.. unless he is married .. I take my ring off when i work (safety thing). so it is ok to call him but anything past dinner is a mistake till you learn more about him. If your in a rush he might take you as a easy lay and just want to have sex and that is it .. So it all depends on what your looking for. just make sure a wife is not going to pop out with 5 kids ..asking why are you sleeping with my daddy ? 27 year old needs advice about calling a man up on the phone?
i think ur 27 ...grow up
I'm an uncircumsized man and have trouble putting on a condom, any advice?
this question will probably be reported, but websites don't help me much
so i pull the foreskin, but as i put the condom on i can't get it to go down from the tip, do i need a bigger sized condom?
PS- i won't get circumsizedI'm an uncircumsized man and have trouble putting on a condom, any advice?
Once you are erect, and you pull the foreskin back, standard condoms should just unroll down the shaft.
It may sound obvious, but make sure you have the condom on the right way round - it will only unroll from one side.
If you find it is particularly tight, you can try a magnum, which is designed for men with thicker penises - the length doesn't really vary much between these and regular condoms.
You can also try putting a little water-based lubricant gel on your penis before putting on the condom. Don't use too much, or the condom may slip off during sex.
I am uncircumcised, and have had no problems using condoms.I'm an uncircumsized man and have trouble putting on a condom, any advice?
I am uncircumsized also. You must be totally erect before you put it on so the foreskin doesn't show. And the condom cannot be backwords. If you have a willing female partner, she may offer to put it on with her mouth and then go to work.
Use plastic wrap!!saran wrap or how about bubble pac?
try Trojan Magnums, they worked for me.. I won't get cut either
Circumcision gets nothing to do with condom!
The most part of men just are uncircumcised and condom isn't a problem. When you put on a condom don't worry about foreskin o prepuce and roll out it simply. Usually during the insertion foreskin is down with uncovered glans.
maybe your putting it on from the wrong side, im uncircumsized and if i try to put it on from the wrong side it wont go down, but i just flip it over and then it works fine, maybe your just really thick, so maybe you need a larger condom, thats all i can think of.
ummm i don't really understand why you're having difficulty. it's a simple process.
so i pull the foreskin, but as i put the condom on i can't get it to go down from the tip, do i need a bigger sized condom?
PS- i won't get circumsizedI'm an uncircumsized man and have trouble putting on a condom, any advice?
Once you are erect, and you pull the foreskin back, standard condoms should just unroll down the shaft.
It may sound obvious, but make sure you have the condom on the right way round - it will only unroll from one side.
If you find it is particularly tight, you can try a magnum, which is designed for men with thicker penises - the length doesn't really vary much between these and regular condoms.
You can also try putting a little water-based lubricant gel on your penis before putting on the condom. Don't use too much, or the condom may slip off during sex.
I am uncircumcised, and have had no problems using condoms.I'm an uncircumsized man and have trouble putting on a condom, any advice?
I am uncircumsized also. You must be totally erect before you put it on so the foreskin doesn't show. And the condom cannot be backwords. If you have a willing female partner, she may offer to put it on with her mouth and then go to work.
Use plastic wrap!!saran wrap or how about bubble pac?
try Trojan Magnums, they worked for me.. I won't get cut either
Circumcision gets nothing to do with condom!
The most part of men just are uncircumcised and condom isn't a problem. When you put on a condom don't worry about foreskin o prepuce and roll out it simply. Usually during the insertion foreskin is down with uncovered glans.
maybe your putting it on from the wrong side, im uncircumsized and if i try to put it on from the wrong side it wont go down, but i just flip it over and then it works fine, maybe your just really thick, so maybe you need a larger condom, thats all i can think of.
ummm i don't really understand why you're having difficulty. it's a simple process.
Older women: I need some advice on finding a sugar mama. Tell me what they look for in a younger man.?
I am 6'1, white, and work out a pretty good bit. Tell me what i need to do and what they will want. haha. THANKS!!!Older women: I need some advice on finding a sugar mama. Tell me what they look for in a younger man.?
my opinion of a sugar mama is a rich older women who doesn't want the hassles of a relationship she only wants sex. Well not just sex, she wants the foreplay too. In return she gives you expensive gifts or money. However, unless you are intellectual and know how to treat a lady like Casanova, don't bother. They do prefer professionals.Older women: I need some advice on finding a sugar mama. Tell me what they look for in a younger man.?
then why is your avatar black?
A guy with a job.
What in the world makes you think an older woman would want a young egotistical person like you?
I am an older woman and I can tell you from experience what we look for....a man with a job!!!!!!
They want to be showered with gifts and lots of sex. You won't be finding any sugar mammas without any cash of your own.
I am only 27--not old!! But I would have to guess someone to hold them, make love to them and hold them afterwards and tell them sweet nothings in their ears!
OK I don't think some of the people on here know what a sugar mama is.
The sugar mama/daddy is supposed to be the one with the money. The sugar baby is the one who's supposed to be attractive and available any time (often no job).
I will never tell, I am a older woman and i think you do not know then maybe you don't need to go there, because a older wants a man to knows what to do we have no time for teaching and Suga moma are not in and most older women want a younger man and so there for you are in trouble.
SORRY WANT TO BE PLAYER AND WANT TO BE TAKEN CARE OF
Have you got any money? Job? House? Did I say money? You don't need to do much, honey, just look good, and oh did I say money? Lots of it????
my opinion of a sugar mama is a rich older women who doesn't want the hassles of a relationship she only wants sex. Well not just sex, she wants the foreplay too. In return she gives you expensive gifts or money. However, unless you are intellectual and know how to treat a lady like Casanova, don't bother. They do prefer professionals.Older women: I need some advice on finding a sugar mama. Tell me what they look for in a younger man.?
then why is your avatar black?
A guy with a job.
What in the world makes you think an older woman would want a young egotistical person like you?
I am an older woman and I can tell you from experience what we look for....a man with a job!!!!!!
They want to be showered with gifts and lots of sex. You won't be finding any sugar mammas without any cash of your own.
I am only 27--not old!! But I would have to guess someone to hold them, make love to them and hold them afterwards and tell them sweet nothings in their ears!
OK I don't think some of the people on here know what a sugar mama is.
The sugar mama/daddy is supposed to be the one with the money. The sugar baby is the one who's supposed to be attractive and available any time (often no job).
I will never tell, I am a older woman and i think you do not know then maybe you don't need to go there, because a older wants a man to knows what to do we have no time for teaching and Suga moma are not in and most older women want a younger man and so there for you are in trouble.
SORRY WANT TO BE PLAYER AND WANT TO BE TAKEN CARE OF
Have you got any money? Job? House? Did I say money? You don't need to do much, honey, just look good, and oh did I say money? Lots of it????
I need advice on a big age gap!! I'm in love with a man twice my age!!?
I met this man where i used to work.. we got on really well, when i left my job he contacted me and wanted to go for coffee for a chat. We got on really well and went out for dinner that night. over the last month we've been seeing each other on and off, he has never asked more of me then to spend time together so its nothing like he wants me just for sex.
The trouble is im 21... he's 47.
I'm in love with him but i havent told him yet. I'm just worried about the age gap and what my family would think of him wen they find out.
Can anyone help me out? just need a few opinions. Thanks xxI need advice on a big age gap!! I'm in love with a man twice my age!!?
Who cares about the age gap. If you love him and you share a bond, then what's the difference. If you are ashamed of him and what your family will think, then you don't love him that much. Because when you love someone, you don't care who knows, you are proud of that love that you feel and you want to share it with the world. Your parents might be shocked a bit, but they'll have to get over it.I need advice on a big age gap!! I'm in love with a man twice my age!!?
Age is just a number. It doesn't really matter. What matters is that you both feel the same about each other and that you are happy and comfortable together. When you do find out if he loves you too or not, those are the kind of things you might want to talk to him about. You will have a lot of things to consider, like children, marriage, careers. etc.
Just take it slow and put all your cards on the table.
I wish you the best of luck.
age does not matter, my dad has 18 year over my mom, and they were fine, your family has to respect your descision
age is just a number if you are over 21
i am 21 and would date an older guy so....
Theoretically, there should be no problem here.
But real life poses some questions. For example, being 26 years older than you, what's his history like? Is he married? Divorced? More than once? Does he have kids? If he's never been married, why not?
One problem with older partners is the baggage they've picked up along the way. Most 47-year-old men are husbands and fathers. So if not, why not? It's a legitimate question.
You're of age. You're a free agent. But you need to look realistically at him and ask yourself if you can deal with his baggage in addition to loving him.
forget about it.....why would you want some old has-been..who is old enough to be your father? hes just looking to recapture his youth? is he keeping you? rich? what are you getting out of it? why wouldn't you want to be with guys closer to your age...if you stuck with this guy in 10 or 15 years
you'll be cleaning his diapers.
go for it......you're legal.....and i think your parents will at least accept him because he's not like one of those immature boyfriends....he's more mature
age doesnt matter just make sure he isnt a sex affender or anything c i have the same problem kinda my boyfriend is going to graduate this year and i am going into highschool so i say if you really like him go for it!!!!!
Well, I gotta say, that's a huge gap. There's going to be a lot of people that will instantly assume that he has ill intentions because of it. He's almost 30 years your senior, so think hard about the impact it will place on your family AND you. Think about it, if it does go your way and you do get together, maybe even further than that, when you're in your 30's he'll be in his 60's pushing 70's. Something to chew on. I'm almost 40 and I'm thinking to myself, now what would a man of 47 have in common with a woman of 21?
This is a tough one and I've been there, done that. Make sure he's not married.
Remember, he's been through many phases in life that you haven't been through yet. You are just starting to grow into the true woman that you are going to be. This includes career decisions, deciding who your lifetime friends will be, what you prefer in a partner, and so forth.
Be very careful and don't be disappointed if the age difference ends up effecting things. It did for me. I was 23 and he was 40. His family didn't take me all that seriously and we were just on different pages in our lives.
If he fulfills the 3 most important aspects in a relationship, then it may work. Those aspects are intellectual, physical, and emotional stimulation. Think back to the relationships you've already had, I'll bet one of those points were lacking and it just didn't work out. I found the physical part was great, but emotional and intellectual wasn't compatible enough.
Good luck!blackheads eraser
The trouble is im 21... he's 47.
I'm in love with him but i havent told him yet. I'm just worried about the age gap and what my family would think of him wen they find out.
Can anyone help me out? just need a few opinions. Thanks xxI need advice on a big age gap!! I'm in love with a man twice my age!!?
Who cares about the age gap. If you love him and you share a bond, then what's the difference. If you are ashamed of him and what your family will think, then you don't love him that much. Because when you love someone, you don't care who knows, you are proud of that love that you feel and you want to share it with the world. Your parents might be shocked a bit, but they'll have to get over it.I need advice on a big age gap!! I'm in love with a man twice my age!!?
Age is just a number. It doesn't really matter. What matters is that you both feel the same about each other and that you are happy and comfortable together. When you do find out if he loves you too or not, those are the kind of things you might want to talk to him about. You will have a lot of things to consider, like children, marriage, careers. etc.
Just take it slow and put all your cards on the table.
I wish you the best of luck.
age does not matter, my dad has 18 year over my mom, and they were fine, your family has to respect your descision
age is just a number if you are over 21
i am 21 and would date an older guy so....
Theoretically, there should be no problem here.
But real life poses some questions. For example, being 26 years older than you, what's his history like? Is he married? Divorced? More than once? Does he have kids? If he's never been married, why not?
One problem with older partners is the baggage they've picked up along the way. Most 47-year-old men are husbands and fathers. So if not, why not? It's a legitimate question.
You're of age. You're a free agent. But you need to look realistically at him and ask yourself if you can deal with his baggage in addition to loving him.
forget about it.....why would you want some old has-been..who is old enough to be your father? hes just looking to recapture his youth? is he keeping you? rich? what are you getting out of it? why wouldn't you want to be with guys closer to your age...if you stuck with this guy in 10 or 15 years
you'll be cleaning his diapers.
go for it......you're legal.....and i think your parents will at least accept him because he's not like one of those immature boyfriends....he's more mature
age doesnt matter just make sure he isnt a sex affender or anything c i have the same problem kinda my boyfriend is going to graduate this year and i am going into highschool so i say if you really like him go for it!!!!!
Well, I gotta say, that's a huge gap. There's going to be a lot of people that will instantly assume that he has ill intentions because of it. He's almost 30 years your senior, so think hard about the impact it will place on your family AND you. Think about it, if it does go your way and you do get together, maybe even further than that, when you're in your 30's he'll be in his 60's pushing 70's. Something to chew on. I'm almost 40 and I'm thinking to myself, now what would a man of 47 have in common with a woman of 21?
This is a tough one and I've been there, done that. Make sure he's not married.
Remember, he's been through many phases in life that you haven't been through yet. You are just starting to grow into the true woman that you are going to be. This includes career decisions, deciding who your lifetime friends will be, what you prefer in a partner, and so forth.
Be very careful and don't be disappointed if the age difference ends up effecting things. It did for me. I was 23 and he was 40. His family didn't take me all that seriously and we were just on different pages in our lives.
If he fulfills the 3 most important aspects in a relationship, then it may work. Those aspects are intellectual, physical, and emotional stimulation. Think back to the relationships you've already had, I'll bet one of those points were lacking and it just didn't work out. I found the physical part was great, but emotional and intellectual wasn't compatible enough.
Good luck!
Advice on how to undo a mess up with your man?
Me and my man got into an argument tonight because I wouldnt give him a kiss because i was mad at him for basically agreeing with my best friend about something he shouldn't have. So I gave him a hug, skipped the kiss and started leaving. he started getting hella mad about it, and so i stopped and listened for a couple seconds, and he started talking **** about me to his friends. like ';f*** that bit**'; and stuff like that. So i got mad and yelled back ';thats why your mom even told me to leave your ***!'; cuz she really did. But I really messed up bad, and I dont want him to be mad at me. Anything I can say to make him less angry????? please???? i really need advice here!!!!Advice on how to undo a mess up with your man?
At the risk of a shocked reaction from you or others -- hey, it's nothing a b***-job wouldn't fix.
In reality, he stopped deserving an apology from you when he started calling you names.
This relationship is on shaky ground. Maybe it should end now instead of later -- trust me, it will end w/o some growing up on both sides. ~;/%26gt;Advice on how to undo a mess up with your man?
He and your best friend both say one thing, and you say another - and yet you're convinced you're right? And then compound that by yelling - not talking, but yelling - trash about him in public?
You blew it. Time to eat humble pie and apologize, and be sure to learn from your mistake
Doesn't sound like you messed up, sounds like he did. I recommend leaving him alone while he is angry and have HIM come to you and apologize. You don't want to be the one that always has to say sorry when it's not your fault.
I don't think you did anything wrong, cos the way he disrespected you in front of his friends. They'll never look at you the same way again. He should've respected you, and not talk about you like that. I agree with his mom, dump his fugly a**!
At the risk of a shocked reaction from you or others -- hey, it's nothing a b***-job wouldn't fix.
In reality, he stopped deserving an apology from you when he started calling you names.
This relationship is on shaky ground. Maybe it should end now instead of later -- trust me, it will end w/o some growing up on both sides. ~;/%26gt;Advice on how to undo a mess up with your man?
He and your best friend both say one thing, and you say another - and yet you're convinced you're right? And then compound that by yelling - not talking, but yelling - trash about him in public?
You blew it. Time to eat humble pie and apologize, and be sure to learn from your mistake
Doesn't sound like you messed up, sounds like he did. I recommend leaving him alone while he is angry and have HIM come to you and apologize. You don't want to be the one that always has to say sorry when it's not your fault.
I don't think you did anything wrong, cos the way he disrespected you in front of his friends. They'll never look at you the same way again. He should've respected you, and not talk about you like that. I agree with his mom, dump his fugly a**!
Please help. i need advice on my life! I am in love with a man who loves me to death. We have been through ...
So much drama though! Abortion, cheating, jealousy, and all that crap. When i am with him, i feel stressed out and angry, but when i am not with him i feel empty and depressed. I just broke up with him after 3 years because I hate being mad all the time...but i cant imagine being with another person. My heart is with him. Is there a way I can deal with my anger and keep our relationship forever, or is it worthless and no matter what I will always have a grudge against him? I dont know what to do? it hurts either way!Please help. i need advice on my life! I am in love with a man who loves me to death. We have been through ...
Have you actually listened to yourself for a few minutes? You say you want and embrace anger, stress, and misery on an everyday basis w/ this guy. Even if you stay with him or leave him you should stop and evaluate your own life before you decide to be with anyone else including wonder boy here. Many people stick with and allow abusive relationship because that is all they have ever known without trying to change their own lives. You sound like one of these people and should seriously consider professional help. Maybe not a shrink, but definitely someone who was in your situation and dealt with his/her issues. Please don't allow yourself to stay in this rut of negativity and pain. There is always hope, but you have to get off your butt and reach for it.Please help. i need advice on my life! I am in love with a man who loves me to death. We have been through ...
i would do is i would say lets be friends see how that goes if it goes good than u can probably try being together again but if it goes crappping than u know tht it wasn't ment to be
You certainly don't love yourself, do you? You have to learn to love yourself - number 1 - before you can love anyone else. Take some time. Really - learn to love yourself!
save urself the heart ach and move on with ur life
try meeting new people hopefully u will meet some one else
all the best
anger management
go into body relations with him and that ll reduce tension
It sound as if you are hooked on anger. go get counseling and find someone new.
i think u and this guy should talk about it and maybe that will help. good luck!
do nothing, be patient, let time and destiny decide for u...
I think you will always have a grudge against him. Unless you want to be with him so bad that your willing to do anything. In that case, your going to have to forget the past. Start over fresh. Just let it go. If you can't let it all go, then I say find a new guy and you will soon forget about this one.
I kind of know how you feel. I was with my ex and I was always feeling mad about stuff that happened. We had been through two abortions, had problems with jealousy, and cheating. But the thing is was it you or him? The abortions were her decision. The first time she lied about being on the pill. I know I shouldn't have trusted her but I forgave her. The second time was a year and a half later and was just an accident. That stuff stuck in my mind and was hard to get over. I still loved her though. I had a grudge with her for a lot of things she did and when something else happened it would bring back memories of other things she did. So I was mad a lot about things she did and we argued alot. She wanted to just forget things and not discuss them because it made her feel guilty. She got stationed somewhere else and started messing around. It hurt and still does but I know that it's actually best for me. She was just wrong for me. It's hard to listen to your mind when your heart is telling you something else. I used to get mad at things that happened before. Well, I think past are important because she cheated in past relationships and ended up cheating on me. I learned the hard way.
What this is is not really a matter of your heart, but your mind. You found your comfort zone around being with him, and the hardest thing to do is leave your comfort. The situation is mind over matter, seeing that you went out for 3 years, it will make him hord to getover, and even hareder to forget, but that is what your time alone is for is to rebuild yourself, but make yourself even better this time.
Have you tried couple counseling? If not, get in there as fast as possible. If you have and it still isn't working, move on quickly.
It will be painful for awhile but better for both of you in the long-run!
i have the same problem
stay away from him,,it will heal with time,it might be a long time but it will get better,you shouldn't be angry all the time it is a waste of time
if it is God's will for you to be together then it is meant to be stop with the cheating and the jealousy and just love each other if you were with him for 3 years obviously something was going good try to mend the relationship think positive situations try not to live by the negative stuff those negative situations bring down a good relationship
Have you actually listened to yourself for a few minutes? You say you want and embrace anger, stress, and misery on an everyday basis w/ this guy. Even if you stay with him or leave him you should stop and evaluate your own life before you decide to be with anyone else including wonder boy here. Many people stick with and allow abusive relationship because that is all they have ever known without trying to change their own lives. You sound like one of these people and should seriously consider professional help. Maybe not a shrink, but definitely someone who was in your situation and dealt with his/her issues. Please don't allow yourself to stay in this rut of negativity and pain. There is always hope, but you have to get off your butt and reach for it.Please help. i need advice on my life! I am in love with a man who loves me to death. We have been through ...
i would do is i would say lets be friends see how that goes if it goes good than u can probably try being together again but if it goes crappping than u know tht it wasn't ment to be
You certainly don't love yourself, do you? You have to learn to love yourself - number 1 - before you can love anyone else. Take some time. Really - learn to love yourself!
save urself the heart ach and move on with ur life
try meeting new people hopefully u will meet some one else
all the best
anger management
go into body relations with him and that ll reduce tension
It sound as if you are hooked on anger. go get counseling and find someone new.
i think u and this guy should talk about it and maybe that will help. good luck!
do nothing, be patient, let time and destiny decide for u...
I think you will always have a grudge against him. Unless you want to be with him so bad that your willing to do anything. In that case, your going to have to forget the past. Start over fresh. Just let it go. If you can't let it all go, then I say find a new guy and you will soon forget about this one.
I kind of know how you feel. I was with my ex and I was always feeling mad about stuff that happened. We had been through two abortions, had problems with jealousy, and cheating. But the thing is was it you or him? The abortions were her decision. The first time she lied about being on the pill. I know I shouldn't have trusted her but I forgave her. The second time was a year and a half later and was just an accident. That stuff stuck in my mind and was hard to get over. I still loved her though. I had a grudge with her for a lot of things she did and when something else happened it would bring back memories of other things she did. So I was mad a lot about things she did and we argued alot. She wanted to just forget things and not discuss them because it made her feel guilty. She got stationed somewhere else and started messing around. It hurt and still does but I know that it's actually best for me. She was just wrong for me. It's hard to listen to your mind when your heart is telling you something else. I used to get mad at things that happened before. Well, I think past are important because she cheated in past relationships and ended up cheating on me. I learned the hard way.
What this is is not really a matter of your heart, but your mind. You found your comfort zone around being with him, and the hardest thing to do is leave your comfort. The situation is mind over matter, seeing that you went out for 3 years, it will make him hord to getover, and even hareder to forget, but that is what your time alone is for is to rebuild yourself, but make yourself even better this time.
Have you tried couple counseling? If not, get in there as fast as possible. If you have and it still isn't working, move on quickly.
It will be painful for awhile but better for both of you in the long-run!
i have the same problem
stay away from him,,it will heal with time,it might be a long time but it will get better,you shouldn't be angry all the time it is a waste of time
if it is God's will for you to be together then it is meant to be stop with the cheating and the jealousy and just love each other if you were with him for 3 years obviously something was going good try to mend the relationship think positive situations try not to live by the negative stuff those negative situations bring down a good relationship
I need AN ADVICE...HOW DO I TURN ON MY MAN..?? HE IS VERY SHY..?
see how he responds to orders you give. those type usually have some sort of kink or fetish. that's why they're ';shy'; in the bedroom. they're afraid to tell you cause you might make fun of them.I need AN ADVICE...HOW DO I TURN ON MY MAN..?? HE IS VERY SHY..?
Start with a back massage this relives all the tensionI need AN ADVICE...HOW DO I TURN ON MY MAN..?? HE IS VERY SHY..?
Turning a man on is a state of mind. In my opinion men are like women when it comes to asking about their life, their thoughts, and generally who they are as a person. Everyone wants attention and appreciation for who they are. The advice might not be like a candle light dinner, but it's food for thought
you dont have to turn me on
tell him he can be his self around you and be more open
Show him your ****.
Dress in very sexy lingerie, making sure you wear nice platform heels.
Dress as a french maid
Dress as a stripper
Dress as a hooker
You get the idea
just make sure it is at least one size smaller than you normally wear.
If that doesn't turn him on and you live in NJ shoot me an email
I would speak to him about what he enjoys and what you enjoy. Open communication is the secret.
grab his C0ck and suck it..jk
discover his peculiar interests. it may be words or sights or smells etc. experiment
Give him money
Play some slow music,get your hair done wear some nice laungery,and dance for him,like a little lap dance.Since he's shy take his hands and let him feel on you let him know it's o.k,let him know you're his woman and that's what he's supposed to do.
POSE NUDE FOR THE DUDE and ask him to tell you some of his fantasies......and if that does not work......TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT with specific directions.........GOOD LUCK AND BE CREATIVE........BUT DON'T forget the raincoats!!!!!!!!!
strip for him
Touching is a great way to stimulate. Play with his hair, give him a neck massage, rub his temples....it feels good and can get him in the mood for touching of a different sort.
taking off ur clothes helps
Start with a back massage this relives all the tensionI need AN ADVICE...HOW DO I TURN ON MY MAN..?? HE IS VERY SHY..?
Turning a man on is a state of mind. In my opinion men are like women when it comes to asking about their life, their thoughts, and generally who they are as a person. Everyone wants attention and appreciation for who they are. The advice might not be like a candle light dinner, but it's food for thought
you dont have to turn me on
tell him he can be his self around you and be more open
Show him your ****.
Dress in very sexy lingerie, making sure you wear nice platform heels.
Dress as a french maid
Dress as a stripper
Dress as a hooker
You get the idea
just make sure it is at least one size smaller than you normally wear.
If that doesn't turn him on and you live in NJ shoot me an email
I would speak to him about what he enjoys and what you enjoy. Open communication is the secret.
grab his C0ck and suck it..jk
discover his peculiar interests. it may be words or sights or smells etc. experiment
Give him money
Play some slow music,get your hair done wear some nice laungery,and dance for him,like a little lap dance.Since he's shy take his hands and let him feel on you let him know it's o.k,let him know you're his woman and that's what he's supposed to do.
POSE NUDE FOR THE DUDE and ask him to tell you some of his fantasies......and if that does not work......TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT with specific directions.........GOOD LUCK AND BE CREATIVE........BUT DON'T forget the raincoats!!!!!!!!!
strip for him
Touching is a great way to stimulate. Play with his hair, give him a neck massage, rub his temples....it feels good and can get him in the mood for touching of a different sort.
taking off ur clothes helps
Ok so i need advice on how i could talk to my MACHO MAN husband?
ok so my father owns a contracting business and my husband is the safety adviser but we've had more than one complaint about his absence in the fields AND he goes to the gym during his lunch, but those are working hours!! and i just want to know if there's a way i could let him know all this in a way where he won't explode because he's the type of guy that u cant tell anything to!! ugh i need help :( because my co wokers at work are always telling me about the wrong doings he does..yet he acts like he's doing work around the clock ughh help Me :( please. %26amp; thanks.Ok so i need advice on how i could talk to my MACHO MAN husband?
Shouldn't that be his boss' duty?Ok so i need advice on how i could talk to my MACHO MAN husband?
Unless he is reporting to YOU directly, it is not YOUR job to supervise him. Let the boss man (dad) do it. You should give the hubby a heads up that you are hearing complaints about it and let him know that someone will probably go to dad. (let him know you could care less what he does...that takes you out of the pic)
Then leave it in his hands. Anyone says anything to you...tell them to talk to your husband.
I would let your father or the HR representative talk to him about his behavior at work. If you are the HR person then I would just tell him that he needs to be more aware of his duties at work. If it gets to be to much your father will fire him.
let your dad deal with it. never mix business with family and friends. and lunches tend to be unpaid so if he goes to the gym and isnt late that shouldnt be an issue.. maybe point that out.. job economy sucks and if he isnt willing to be there when its required someone out there is more than willing to. and probably for less $$..
Next time people complain to you tell them to tell your husbands immediate superior and so he can call him out on it. Why are you going to fight others battle, yes it is your fathers comapny but currently you are just a employee not a co owner.
I'm also the owner of a contracting business, and I wished my safety people would go to the gym during working hours, they are a pain in the a**.
OOOOOOOOOooooo Yeah! You tell him to snap into a slim jim! Then you challenge him to a match a wrestlemania. Oh...you aren't talking about Randy Savage...It would have been more fun if you were talking about Randy Savage.
I have not a clue.
you better stick up for your man. you married him then you best stand by him. as long has his break is spent working out and not sexing up another woman then your okay. be grateful
feel guilty you owe him a bj for every time you didn't stuck up...
poor guy
Why is it your business, your father should tell him not you. Exploding guys seem to think there right all the time and it impossible to reason with them.
I don't know.. but I think I'm in love : )
urghhh why did you marry this guy?? He sounds like a jerk! Just tell him and if he desnt like him tell him to get a life....or tell ur dad to fire him.
Your 21 and married?
lol...he is mach but stupid!
Toughie! I'd be tempted to say that you shouldn't get involved and you should let your dad address any issues with his performance at work but I get the impression you're trying to save him from that experience.
I think I'd try something like, ';Babe, I know you work really hard but I wanted you to know that some people at work seem to think that you're taking too long lunches and going to the gym on work time. I know you do a good job, but maybe be careful about the impression you're giving people.';
That way you aren't calling him lazy but you're letting him know that other people think he's maybe not pulling his full weight.
Good luck!
I don't care if he's macho or not, but he's taking advantage of your dad. He is suppose to be doing his job just as the other employees of your father are doing, but he is actually ';stealing'; from him as he's being paid for hrs. he is NOT working. This is NOT a bit fair to the other co workers nor is it fair to your dad. I don't know if YOU want to say anything to him or if you should put a ';bug'; in your dad's ear as to what he's doing. He is setting a BAD example at work %26amp; you cannot blame his fellow co workers for overstepping his boundaries. If you want to try to talk to him %26amp; let him know you're hearing different things he's doing which you feel are NOT fair to your dad who is paying him. EVERYONE else is working for their living, he's playing at times for his living just because he's the bosses daughter's husband. This is NOT a bit fair. Which ever way you feel would be the best way of handling it. But, something should be said to him in all fairness to everyone else...Good luck to you...:)
I think that I would go to my father, if he is the one that is having the problems with his work, then he should talk to him. If it is just bugging you, then you are going to have to tell him how you feel. If it is the co workers bringing it on then tell them to mind their own business. If your dad has the problem and has talked to him and then has come to you, you have no choice but to talk to him. Tell him that although you love the way he takes care of himself, it is jeopardizing his job and your all's future. I would still try and talk to my father first and see what he says. Sticky situation.
Shouldn't that be his boss' duty?Ok so i need advice on how i could talk to my MACHO MAN husband?
Unless he is reporting to YOU directly, it is not YOUR job to supervise him. Let the boss man (dad) do it. You should give the hubby a heads up that you are hearing complaints about it and let him know that someone will probably go to dad. (let him know you could care less what he does...that takes you out of the pic)
Then leave it in his hands. Anyone says anything to you...tell them to talk to your husband.
I would let your father or the HR representative talk to him about his behavior at work. If you are the HR person then I would just tell him that he needs to be more aware of his duties at work. If it gets to be to much your father will fire him.
let your dad deal with it. never mix business with family and friends. and lunches tend to be unpaid so if he goes to the gym and isnt late that shouldnt be an issue.. maybe point that out.. job economy sucks and if he isnt willing to be there when its required someone out there is more than willing to. and probably for less $$..
Next time people complain to you tell them to tell your husbands immediate superior and so he can call him out on it. Why are you going to fight others battle, yes it is your fathers comapny but currently you are just a employee not a co owner.
I'm also the owner of a contracting business, and I wished my safety people would go to the gym during working hours, they are a pain in the a**.
OOOOOOOOOooooo Yeah! You tell him to snap into a slim jim! Then you challenge him to a match a wrestlemania. Oh...you aren't talking about Randy Savage...It would have been more fun if you were talking about Randy Savage.
I have not a clue.
you better stick up for your man. you married him then you best stand by him. as long has his break is spent working out and not sexing up another woman then your okay. be grateful
feel guilty you owe him a bj for every time you didn't stuck up...
poor guy
Why is it your business, your father should tell him not you. Exploding guys seem to think there right all the time and it impossible to reason with them.
I don't know.. but I think I'm in love : )
urghhh why did you marry this guy?? He sounds like a jerk! Just tell him and if he desnt like him tell him to get a life....or tell ur dad to fire him.
Your 21 and married?
lol...he is mach but stupid!
Toughie! I'd be tempted to say that you shouldn't get involved and you should let your dad address any issues with his performance at work but I get the impression you're trying to save him from that experience.
I think I'd try something like, ';Babe, I know you work really hard but I wanted you to know that some people at work seem to think that you're taking too long lunches and going to the gym on work time. I know you do a good job, but maybe be careful about the impression you're giving people.';
That way you aren't calling him lazy but you're letting him know that other people think he's maybe not pulling his full weight.
Good luck!
I don't care if he's macho or not, but he's taking advantage of your dad. He is suppose to be doing his job just as the other employees of your father are doing, but he is actually ';stealing'; from him as he's being paid for hrs. he is NOT working. This is NOT a bit fair to the other co workers nor is it fair to your dad. I don't know if YOU want to say anything to him or if you should put a ';bug'; in your dad's ear as to what he's doing. He is setting a BAD example at work %26amp; you cannot blame his fellow co workers for overstepping his boundaries. If you want to try to talk to him %26amp; let him know you're hearing different things he's doing which you feel are NOT fair to your dad who is paying him. EVERYONE else is working for their living, he's playing at times for his living just because he's the bosses daughter's husband. This is NOT a bit fair. Which ever way you feel would be the best way of handling it. But, something should be said to him in all fairness to everyone else...Good luck to you...:)
I think that I would go to my father, if he is the one that is having the problems with his work, then he should talk to him. If it is just bugging you, then you are going to have to tell him how you feel. If it is the co workers bringing it on then tell them to mind their own business. If your dad has the problem and has talked to him and then has come to you, you have no choice but to talk to him. Tell him that although you love the way he takes care of himself, it is jeopardizing his job and your all's future. I would still try and talk to my father first and see what he says. Sticky situation.
I need solid advice on my situation.In love with a married man :(?
Been in a relationship for a little over three years with a married man,i love him with everything in me. He's not an average guy,i can see he cares for me,he does a lot to help me,he help me get a place of my own and also help furnish it too,he spends a lot of time with me,i see him everyday. I am happy for the most part but here's the catch.
He has a wife,and kids. I know they're his priority!! and i am not.Like i said before,i know he cares for me,but he's the type of person that would do what they need to do and not worry about anyone else. Example: He can provide for me ';somewhat financially and when it comes to material things'; but what i really need help with,he can't help me.... Meaning i am at a country whereby i am all alone and need to become legal and the only way to do that is to marry someone. I know it sounds very bad to say but it's the truth. I love him and i know i am in love with him,despite everything i know, he's hurt me, over and over again,but i still love him. I realize where i deserve better but my heart is hurting and i don't know how to move on.
Another twist,i have someone that's willing to be mine,and only mine,it's just that i am in love with someone else...what should i do.
I know it's very bad what i am doing and i know it's wrong but i'm in love but i need to do what i need to do to take care of myself because truth be told if it was him he would do what he had to do.
Help,please!I need solid advice on my situation.In love with a married man :(?
You need to drop this loser and find a guy who's not married, it ain't that serious you can find a much better man who's not married. And how would you feel if you were married and your man was seeing someone behind your back? Also keep in mind if this loser was to leave his wife for you, what makes you think he would be faithful to you? He's a dog and you need to drop him off at the dog pound where he belongs, and don't settle for being the other woman.I need solid advice on my situation.In love with a married man :(?
you need to forget about him and the feelings you feel may seem original but he is not willing to leave his life for you so that should tell you his intentions. just leave and you will look at this day a year from now and say '; I am sure glad i forgot about him';
hes just being nice
you dont wanna be respesible for ripping apart a family
you should just take a step back and just chill
sorry
Rape him. You had better give him the time of his life, or he'll crack under pressure.
i think u should see the movie obsessed
You need to get over this skewed fantasy. He will never leave his wife to marry you. It's been three years. Use your head and take a hint. He has kids! And you will break up his family if you stay with him. You are scum.
Second, you do not deserve better, you deserve some rotten home-wrecker just like yourself or no one at all.
i think what you need to do is put yourself in his wife's shoes.
Just think about how she would feel if she knew about you. And his kids.. they NEED a Father. Kids don't grow up right without one. Do you really want to be responsible for that? He can still make it with his family. And if you love him, you'll let him go. There's someone else out there for you. It will hurt but it's the right thing to do
Being with a married man or involved with one, is NEVER a good idea. He's not going to leave the wife and kids, for you. You need to get on with your life. Find someone who'll support you, or find a job and support yourself.... learn a trade, and work.... get a job, ,,, move on!!!!! Put him behind you.... and out of your life forever....
Meganlou, OUCH, that's harsh. I think you need to learn to be kind, and say what you want....GEEZ.
I've been married to my wonderful husband for just a little over 35 years, and the furtherist thing from my mind and his is to cheat on each other. I would never do it, and neither would he. I don't want anybody else. Ever.
lol in love with a married man eh ? and u say u deserve better lol so ur looking for pitty? well ur a **** and btw I happen to be a very nice person, so this coming from me should be well heard from by you.........this man has a child to top it off, u love that he can provide for you that's all and he doesn't love you ur just his sexual investment instead of getting a random hooker and risk his health that's y he is providing for you....for his own needs..
but the min he gets caught and his wife kicks him out for a few nights he'll be begging for her forgivness and not yours, if he didn't want her he would have a divorce u r just the recovering part of his mid life crisis
If this man would leave his wife and children for you, then he is no man at all. Cheating is the most disgusting thing that can happen in a marriage. If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you. Don't try to trap him. If he is happy you can't ruin his life for your own selfishness.
Love is not a one time thing. Heard that before? I wonder why? Maybe because it's TRUE! Love is more than wanting someone. It is impossible to only find love once. You just aren't looking.
Just...forget it...
He is married...
you could ruin his life if his wife finds out...
Find a REAL man... not a cheater...
If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you
Start going to a random place and find a man who has a spine...
I dont want to be mean...
but he has hurt you... he WILL hurt you...
Give him up...
It will be hard but it can be done
He has a wife,and kids. I know they're his priority!! and i am not.Like i said before,i know he cares for me,but he's the type of person that would do what they need to do and not worry about anyone else. Example: He can provide for me ';somewhat financially and when it comes to material things'; but what i really need help with,he can't help me.... Meaning i am at a country whereby i am all alone and need to become legal and the only way to do that is to marry someone. I know it sounds very bad to say but it's the truth. I love him and i know i am in love with him,despite everything i know, he's hurt me, over and over again,but i still love him. I realize where i deserve better but my heart is hurting and i don't know how to move on.
Another twist,i have someone that's willing to be mine,and only mine,it's just that i am in love with someone else...what should i do.
I know it's very bad what i am doing and i know it's wrong but i'm in love but i need to do what i need to do to take care of myself because truth be told if it was him he would do what he had to do.
Help,please!I need solid advice on my situation.In love with a married man :(?
You need to drop this loser and find a guy who's not married, it ain't that serious you can find a much better man who's not married. And how would you feel if you were married and your man was seeing someone behind your back? Also keep in mind if this loser was to leave his wife for you, what makes you think he would be faithful to you? He's a dog and you need to drop him off at the dog pound where he belongs, and don't settle for being the other woman.I need solid advice on my situation.In love with a married man :(?
you need to forget about him and the feelings you feel may seem original but he is not willing to leave his life for you so that should tell you his intentions. just leave and you will look at this day a year from now and say '; I am sure glad i forgot about him';
hes just being nice
you dont wanna be respesible for ripping apart a family
you should just take a step back and just chill
sorry
Rape him. You had better give him the time of his life, or he'll crack under pressure.
i think u should see the movie obsessed
You need to get over this skewed fantasy. He will never leave his wife to marry you. It's been three years. Use your head and take a hint. He has kids! And you will break up his family if you stay with him. You are scum.
Second, you do not deserve better, you deserve some rotten home-wrecker just like yourself or no one at all.
i think what you need to do is put yourself in his wife's shoes.
Just think about how she would feel if she knew about you. And his kids.. they NEED a Father. Kids don't grow up right without one. Do you really want to be responsible for that? He can still make it with his family. And if you love him, you'll let him go. There's someone else out there for you. It will hurt but it's the right thing to do
Being with a married man or involved with one, is NEVER a good idea. He's not going to leave the wife and kids, for you. You need to get on with your life. Find someone who'll support you, or find a job and support yourself.... learn a trade, and work.... get a job, ,,, move on!!!!! Put him behind you.... and out of your life forever....
Meganlou, OUCH, that's harsh. I think you need to learn to be kind, and say what you want....GEEZ.
I've been married to my wonderful husband for just a little over 35 years, and the furtherist thing from my mind and his is to cheat on each other. I would never do it, and neither would he. I don't want anybody else. Ever.
lol in love with a married man eh ? and u say u deserve better lol so ur looking for pitty? well ur a **** and btw I happen to be a very nice person, so this coming from me should be well heard from by you.........this man has a child to top it off, u love that he can provide for you that's all and he doesn't love you ur just his sexual investment instead of getting a random hooker and risk his health that's y he is providing for you....for his own needs..
but the min he gets caught and his wife kicks him out for a few nights he'll be begging for her forgivness and not yours, if he didn't want her he would have a divorce u r just the recovering part of his mid life crisis
If this man would leave his wife and children for you, then he is no man at all. Cheating is the most disgusting thing that can happen in a marriage. If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you. Don't try to trap him. If he is happy you can't ruin his life for your own selfishness.
Love is not a one time thing. Heard that before? I wonder why? Maybe because it's TRUE! Love is more than wanting someone. It is impossible to only find love once. You just aren't looking.
Just...forget it...
He is married...
you could ruin his life if his wife finds out...
Find a REAL man... not a cheater...
If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you
Start going to a random place and find a man who has a spine...
I dont want to be mean...
but he has hurt you... he WILL hurt you...
Give him up...
It will be hard but it can be done
What advice would you give me on a young man that talks to everyone else gives everyone eye contact except me.
he loves you and if you love him tell him.What advice would you give me on a young man that talks to everyone else gives everyone eye contact except me.
He probably likes you, so ignore him! One day he will crack. If he actually doesn't like you, who cares if this guy doesn't pay attention to you, you could have anyone you want.What advice would you give me on a young man that talks to everyone else gives everyone eye contact except me.
He may be avoiding you because he finds you attractive and does not want to feel like a fool. Approach him and see what he does next. Maybe you intimidate him!
Probably likes you, probably shy. Been there, done that.
Act cool and stay hot. Then see wat he doesblackheads eraser
He probably likes you, so ignore him! One day he will crack. If he actually doesn't like you, who cares if this guy doesn't pay attention to you, you could have anyone you want.What advice would you give me on a young man that talks to everyone else gives everyone eye contact except me.
He may be avoiding you because he finds you attractive and does not want to feel like a fool. Approach him and see what he does next. Maybe you intimidate him!
Probably likes you, probably shy. Been there, done that.
Act cool and stay hot. Then see wat he does
I'm 34 man and want to get my hair spiked,it's long and i'm balding please hurry for advice on what hair due
to get cause they close at 8:00pm i'm in NY,thanks.I'm 34 man and want to get my hair spiked,it's long and i'm balding please hurry for advice on what hair due
Aight, here my drunk *** is here to the rescue again. don't shave it, I'll get jealous. I'm not aloud to shave my head because the wifey likes it. prferebly spikey. i would go a fade from a 0 to a 3 on the side and a 4 on top. now every now and then i bleach my tips (even though i am only 29) it makes me look younger and the ladies seem to dig it at the clubs. especialy if you wear nice club shirts like i do. (then they wont see yer car til later that night) if you have a decent body and no tank (beer gut). it looks real good. Now don't try to get the whole queer deal, jus keep it suttle or you'll be called a ';metrosexual'; which is just another word a queer calls a straight guy they want.I'm 34 man and want to get my hair spiked,it's long and i'm balding please hurry for advice on what hair due
If you're balding, spiking it will look weird...Just shave your head!
Don't. Please don't.
NO, Please. Use Bruce Willis as a role model.
U should shave ur head lol
Aight, here my drunk *** is here to the rescue again. don't shave it, I'll get jealous. I'm not aloud to shave my head because the wifey likes it. prferebly spikey. i would go a fade from a 0 to a 3 on the side and a 4 on top. now every now and then i bleach my tips (even though i am only 29) it makes me look younger and the ladies seem to dig it at the clubs. especialy if you wear nice club shirts like i do. (then they wont see yer car til later that night) if you have a decent body and no tank (beer gut). it looks real good. Now don't try to get the whole queer deal, jus keep it suttle or you'll be called a ';metrosexual'; which is just another word a queer calls a straight guy they want.I'm 34 man and want to get my hair spiked,it's long and i'm balding please hurry for advice on what hair due
If you're balding, spiking it will look weird...Just shave your head!
Don't. Please don't.
NO, Please. Use Bruce Willis as a role model.
U should shave ur head lol
What advice would you give this woman on her man?
It cost me a lot
But theres one thing that I've got
It's my man
It's my man
Cold or wet
Tired, you bet
All of this I'll soon forget
With my man
He's not much on looks
He's no hero out of books
But I love him
Yes, I love him
Two or three girls has he
That he likes as well as me
But I love him
I don't know why I should, he isn't true
He beats me, too. What can I do?
Oh, my man, I love him so
He'll never know
All my life is just a spare
But I don't care
When he takes me in his arms
The world is bright
All right
What's the difference if I say ';I'll go away';?
When I know I'll come back on my knees someday?
For whatever my man is, I'm his forevermore.What advice would you give this woman on her man?
Get out of there RIGHT NOW. You're acting like a needy child.
But theres one thing that I've got
It's my man
It's my man
Cold or wet
Tired, you bet
All of this I'll soon forget
With my man
He's not much on looks
He's no hero out of books
But I love him
Yes, I love him
Two or three girls has he
That he likes as well as me
But I love him
I don't know why I should, he isn't true
He beats me, too. What can I do?
Oh, my man, I love him so
He'll never know
All my life is just a spare
But I don't care
When he takes me in his arms
The world is bright
All right
What's the difference if I say ';I'll go away';?
When I know I'll come back on my knees someday?
For whatever my man is, I'm his forevermore.What advice would you give this woman on her man?
Get out of there RIGHT NOW. You're acting like a needy child.
02 mustang 4.6 ltr no fuel. Want advice and info on geting owners man. Bought repair book it sucks.?
I am sure it is the fuel pump however the repair book I have does not say what relay is what and I do not have the owners manuel. I do not want to pull the in tank mounted fuel pump to find out it is a relay or resistor or what not. This particular car requires a code reader and it is snowing to much to tow it to a shop. I have 8 or so wires going to pump unit. 2 are hot I assume the low volt is the gage and the high volt is the pump. I checked all relays in the fuse box under hood and all are good according to book even though the book doesn't say what runs what. It says refer to owners book....Should I pull pump and buy the $210 replacement or ...........02 mustang 4.6 ltr no fuel. Want advice and info on geting owners man. Bought repair book it sucks.?
The chapter on fuses and relays (including diagrams %26amp; charts for all the fuses %26amp; relays) begins on page 160 in your owners manual.
Your complete owners manual (2002 Ford Mustang) can be downloaded by clicking here:
http://www.motorcraftservice.com/pubs/co鈥?/a>
It is in pdf format so it is easily saved to your computer or printed for future reference.02 mustang 4.6 ltr no fuel. Want advice and info on geting owners man. Bought repair book it sucks.?
You're welcome!
I'm glad I could help.
;-)
get as close as u can to the fuel pump with a multi meter and see if u can get a reading with the ignition on so u know if its ur fuel pump or not
Its rather easy to do the fuel pump. You can get a new pump cheaper on ebay,summit,50resto, etc
Check the inertia switch mounted in the trunk. The red button needs to be pushed down to reset.
try : http://www.allfordmustangs.com/forums/
The chapter on fuses and relays (including diagrams %26amp; charts for all the fuses %26amp; relays) begins on page 160 in your owners manual.
Your complete owners manual (2002 Ford Mustang) can be downloaded by clicking here:
http://www.motorcraftservice.com/pubs/co鈥?/a>
It is in pdf format so it is easily saved to your computer or printed for future reference.02 mustang 4.6 ltr no fuel. Want advice and info on geting owners man. Bought repair book it sucks.?
You're welcome!
I'm glad I could help.
;-)
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get as close as u can to the fuel pump with a multi meter and see if u can get a reading with the ignition on so u know if its ur fuel pump or not
Its rather easy to do the fuel pump. You can get a new pump cheaper on ebay,summit,50resto, etc
Check the inertia switch mounted in the trunk. The red button needs to be pushed down to reset.
try : http://www.allfordmustangs.com/forums/
Man im so tired at work today anybody got any advice on how to liven things up for me?
Obviously you have picked a career choice that does not inspire you. I assume you are tired because you have not scheduled you daily life cycle to compensate for the require rest you need in order not to be tired. Of course on the other hand you may be a party hardy individual and need to slow that down a bit. Then in another area you may be worked so hard that you are classified as a workaholic and will always be tired starting off your day......last but not least....if you are so tired, how did you find the time to write the question???...what they hey!...have a coffee...Friday will be here soon.....go burn yer self out!Man im so tired at work today anybody got any advice on how to liven things up for me?
u could write some of my thesis for me! i need another 14000 words by monday. and you could design my website that's due in next thursday. then you would be happy in the knowledge that i can finally go to bed!Man im so tired at work today anybody got any advice on how to liven things up for me?
Do not try to watch any TV or play any games, what you need is a week of constant 8 to 10 hour sleep a night, try to find some sleeping pills and take them for a whole week and make sure you take 8 to 10 hrs, make it 10 days. And then stop taking pills and you will see that your sleep becomes a routine and you will get all the energy back, sleep deprivation is the biggest problem in America, about 90% of the population don't get enough sleep, good luck if you can鈥檛 find sleeping pills drink some nightcol or some other syrups that would get you to a good night sleep.
u didn't write why re u tired - are u tired of using your brains at work or re u tired of digging holes? write please what sort of work and we can help u with advice
just fix your eyes on the computer screen
The boss will think that you are so damn busy but you are actually at Yahoo answers Haha ha ahahaha
no but Im in the same boat yo, I wanna sleep for a week !! try some online games if you can get away with it, I was playing a cool car game (drag racing) on www.ebaumsworld.com
go to some quiet area and listen to some slow music
Toss wads of paper over the cubicle walls... it's up to you if you want to write anything on them first!
i have!!! check this video section: http://keepqueenalive.iphorum.com/forum/鈥?/a> it has Queen videos, at least it always cheers me up!!! good luck!!! or keep answring in this forum!!! it's a nice way of spending ur time and know that there r ppl with probs worse than urs...
pills pills and more pills.
Have a Coke and a smile!
idiot leave the feaky job if your so tired
u could write some of my thesis for me! i need another 14000 words by monday. and you could design my website that's due in next thursday. then you would be happy in the knowledge that i can finally go to bed!Man im so tired at work today anybody got any advice on how to liven things up for me?
Do not try to watch any TV or play any games, what you need is a week of constant 8 to 10 hour sleep a night, try to find some sleeping pills and take them for a whole week and make sure you take 8 to 10 hrs, make it 10 days. And then stop taking pills and you will see that your sleep becomes a routine and you will get all the energy back, sleep deprivation is the biggest problem in America, about 90% of the population don't get enough sleep, good luck if you can鈥檛 find sleeping pills drink some nightcol or some other syrups that would get you to a good night sleep.
u didn't write why re u tired - are u tired of using your brains at work or re u tired of digging holes? write please what sort of work and we can help u with advice
just fix your eyes on the computer screen
The boss will think that you are so damn busy but you are actually at Yahoo answers Haha ha ahahaha
no but Im in the same boat yo, I wanna sleep for a week !! try some online games if you can get away with it, I was playing a cool car game (drag racing) on www.ebaumsworld.com
go to some quiet area and listen to some slow music
Toss wads of paper over the cubicle walls... it's up to you if you want to write anything on them first!
i have!!! check this video section: http://keepqueenalive.iphorum.com/forum/鈥?/a> it has Queen videos, at least it always cheers me up!!! good luck!!! or keep answring in this forum!!! it's a nice way of spending ur time and know that there r ppl with probs worse than urs...
pills pills and more pills.
Have a Coke and a smile!
idiot leave the feaky job if your so tired
Need advice on how long it should take for a man I just started dating to call to see me again? PLEASE!!?
I have only seen him twice. The first time we met up at a bar 2-1/2 weeks ago. The second time was just this last Thursday night, he took me out. He left to go out of town the following morning for Memorial weekend and was returning last night. He was with all his friends so I didn't expect him to call, he is not a big phone person anyway! He likes to text and we are just getting to know each other very slowly which I don't mind! He has a demanding job and I have 2 little boys! He did make a comment he wanted to see me this week. I didn't hear from him for a week after our 1st meeting. I am new to dating again (married 10 yrs), is this normal for in the begining not to hear from him for a week then he calls for a date? Should I worry? I really do like him but I am NOT calling him. I let them come to me. Will he?Need advice on how long it should take for a man I just started dating to call to see me again? PLEASE!!?
I would think that if he is REALLY INTERESTED in you, it wouldn't take him a week to call you for a date. Also, wouldn't it be nice that if he did like you, he'd call more often so you two could talk and get to know each other? Frankly, I'd be suspicious of such a long time span for his phone calls. I would be concerned that he has either too busy for you or he has other people that he is out meeting. My advice is to not get to serious with him for a while.Need advice on how long it should take for a man I just started dating to call to see me again? PLEASE!!?
Mmm....I'd say after a week (basing on the busy schedules) if you don't hear from him, then he may not be that interested. But that's ok too, you can still date and keep your options open, you know? I spent most of my 20s ';waiting'; to hear back from men who never called. Usually within three days they generally call....hope this helps!
just text him asking how his trip was, lifes too short!
when you talked to him last, did he say he was going to call you? if he did, then wait. if he didn't say he would call you, and you really like him, maybe you should reconsider calling him.
I would think that if he is REALLY INTERESTED in you, it wouldn't take him a week to call you for a date. Also, wouldn't it be nice that if he did like you, he'd call more often so you two could talk and get to know each other? Frankly, I'd be suspicious of such a long time span for his phone calls. I would be concerned that he has either too busy for you or he has other people that he is out meeting. My advice is to not get to serious with him for a while.Need advice on how long it should take for a man I just started dating to call to see me again? PLEASE!!?
Mmm....I'd say after a week (basing on the busy schedules) if you don't hear from him, then he may not be that interested. But that's ok too, you can still date and keep your options open, you know? I spent most of my 20s ';waiting'; to hear back from men who never called. Usually within three days they generally call....hope this helps!
just text him asking how his trip was, lifes too short!
when you talked to him last, did he say he was going to call you? if he did, then wait. if he didn't say he would call you, and you really like him, maybe you should reconsider calling him.
Great advice people--about dealing with the man on vacation I met-?
I wrote this whole letter to him- telling him about me, my job, my hobbies, etc, That I wanted to come back in a few months- maybe he is just a smarter, or more polite player- my sister says if he was a true player he wouldn't have contacted me-- but I sent him an elaborate, thought out, unique letter to gain his curiosity- and maybe I have-- but in that- well I might do her sort of way---I just don't want to be taken advantage of- I truly want something real- not a one night stand or vacation for a weak male-and yes- he is charming and beautiful--do you think he would see a long letter about me as pathetic or actually take it seriously--sorry everyone- i am overly tired and hopeful tonight.Great advice people--about dealing with the man on vacation I met-?
In my opinion, I think u should keep the letter pretty short and to the point. I just say this because there are some people who hate reading long letters. But I would have to say...since u like him so much, go ahead and write him but at the same time, don't expect anything in return. If he really likes u, he wil respond sooner or later.Great advice people--about dealing with the man on vacation I met-?
I say go for it and see where it leads if you dont you will regret it forever not knowing how it was meant to be. Even if he is a player you will know the truth and can avoid him.
yea that is wrong and why would u met someone on vaction this person might be married and etc so if i was u i would stop writing this person letters.
If you don't want a one night stand, don't sex him!
you gotta watch out for those slicksters! some may know that your on vaction, think they will never see you again, and will try to get a piece of A@@ on vacation. That's a hard one.maybe just write him a short letter,give him your e-mail address and phone number and see how he responds.
Vacation romances never work out. You are in a different world when on vacation and when you get back it's reality.blackheads eraser
In my opinion, I think u should keep the letter pretty short and to the point. I just say this because there are some people who hate reading long letters. But I would have to say...since u like him so much, go ahead and write him but at the same time, don't expect anything in return. If he really likes u, he wil respond sooner or later.Great advice people--about dealing with the man on vacation I met-?
I say go for it and see where it leads if you dont you will regret it forever not knowing how it was meant to be. Even if he is a player you will know the truth and can avoid him.
yea that is wrong and why would u met someone on vaction this person might be married and etc so if i was u i would stop writing this person letters.
If you don't want a one night stand, don't sex him!
you gotta watch out for those slicksters! some may know that your on vaction, think they will never see you again, and will try to get a piece of A@@ on vacation. That's a hard one.maybe just write him a short letter,give him your e-mail address and phone number and see how he responds.
Vacation romances never work out. You are in a different world when on vacation and when you get back it's reality.
Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
I have already talk to police awhile back on this matter according to the state of NE she is of legal age to have consensual sex, I don't think this is right, this man is much old and has targeted my daughter, she is due Oct 1st 2006, I'm still responsible for her until she is 19yrs, to make it worst, he gave her an S.T.D.,if anyone has any referrals or advise please let know I'm at a loss right now and I would be so grateful for some help.Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
In some state's, 16 is the legal age of consent, how ever talk to a DA (not cops) about possible charges of indecent liberties with a minor. She is still considered a minor becuse she is under 18 fed. law. Also when you talk to the DA mension a PFA or protection from abuse order. as an adult you have a responablity to look after your daughter and a PFA (A.K.A restraining order) will force him to stay away from your daughter or face jail time.Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
Please hire a lawyer. Your daughter life is in your hand...... give her a pull out of this evil man :( SUE him!!!
Thats horrible! As long as your daughter admits it was cosentual you cant really do any damage...
I owuld get a lawyer and sew him for all he is worth, or get like really good child support off him. But to be realistic, just talk to your lawyer about your options. Choose the one that you think will help you and your daughter gat through it easier.
I dont think that it is right either, you should be able to do something about it.
Talk to a attorney. You may get him of child rape. The man needs to go to jail let the mans wife know what he did.
move your case to california so you can put his *** to jail
have you talk to an attorney? get legal advice.
You make me sick listening to your parental skills. Maybe you should of been a better parent and this would not have happened . Also it takes two to tango - Mom. If little baby daughter got herself in this mess its her job to get out of it.
First of all TRUST me Im not bashing you but where were you when they were obviously doing the ';act';? I mean unless your daughter is just not nice I would assume they had been seeing each other and led up to this, right? I mean at some point YOU as the parent has to accept responsibility. And know that I mean no disrespect or to try to hurt your feelings but way to often as parents we turn a BLIND eye to our children's behavior, Ive also done this of course my daughter's not pregnant but then again I don't let her go far and Im calling every 15, 30 , 45 min not in that order actually but she NEVER knows when I'll call and give her 5 or 10 min to be home.I do this BECAUSE I also made the mistake of letting my 17 yo son have to much freedom and he and his gf are now expecting their child and she is now 19 SO (see I said we ALL turn a blind eye) but anyhow in alot of states that is the consensual age YES but your state SHOULD have statutory rape laws AS LONG as you ddnt consent to the dating at ANY point, and if you did I would suggest you , your daughter, AND the Father weather it the best way you can. Make damn sure he takes his part. I Understand FULLY how you feel and I see alot of people are bashing the ';father'; and him sleeping with a 16 yo in itself IS definitely wrong BUT why has no one brought up the fact that NO this was not Rape and your daughter OBVIOUSLY participated and at 16 Im more than sure she knew not only what she was doing BUT also the possibilities AND the concequences, she's DEFINITELY not innocent in this u know?
Go to the department of Social Services and try to set up child support. the dept of social services will require him to submit to a paternity test and once paternity is established then he will be responsible for child support as well as caring insurance on the baby.
But just so you know, the down side to this is that the father will then be likely to get visitation rights, and this will most likely not include your daughter. It would be like every other weekend, where he would pick the baby up and keep the baby until a certain time set by a judge. The visitation may not be overnight at first when the baby is so small, but once the baby is off bottle feeding/breast feeding, then it is possible that the father would have overnight visitation with the baby where your daughter would not be with them, but he would have the baby with his wife, if she decides to stay with him after this.
And once paternity is established, he could even go after custody of the baby, by saying that he is married, and that the baby would have a better, more stable life with him and his wife, rather than a single mother not yet out of school. it could get ugly.
If she is of legal age there isn't much you can do about the sex..However you need to make him financially responsible for raising the child..Be sure his name is on the birth certificate and take him to court for child support
my GOD that's terrible.this guy is a jerk i wish i could help maybe someone can give u advice
You should talk to your D.A. there. There has to be a law reguarding your daughters age. Also check about having him arrested for adultry. A lot of states still have this type of law on their books.
Make it known to his wife if it isnt already men like him need help and the laws suck yes at 16 they can consent to sex but your responsable for her screw ups till she 19 makes no sense but its reality...Force him to step and do what he needs to do as for the STD he probably has a few little girls he is messing with check around and ask a few questions there may be a few underage jailbates he is messin with I pretty much doubt your daughter is the first or the last but you might be able to make her pregnancy his final error in judgement if you find a minor he is messin with...Good Luck hun and Congrats on the baby even tho I know it is hard
underage sex is considered as rape.............have it under the rape section
First, you have to blame your daughter for knowingly done this.This cannot happen without knowledge. You have to prove she was raped by that man. You daughter has to say that.
Next, you have to prove that this man is responsible for this, by getting DNA test performed.
You have to think about rehabilitation of the child.
or you have to allow your daughter to become his second wife.
This thing happened because sex is blind.
You cannot control the body language.
Age is nothing to do with sex.
These things happen till human beings live in this on earth.
Study the law becasue with him being married he has violated his oath to his wife. If you can find anything that has to do with emotional strain as well as deceit i am sure it will help. Does the wife know? She can sue him for doing it and HE IS RESPONSIBLE financially for her care and that baby, GET HIM ANYWAY YOU CAN he can't go around getting young girls pregnant while he is married, And the std too. You've got to find a good lawyer, medical bills is also his responsibility
Other then him taking a DNA test and paying child support legally there isn't alot you can do however.... If it was my daughter he would never be able to get anyone pregnant again it might cost me some money and a little jail time but he would pay dearly.. Does his wife know what he has done? His friends?? His employers? Those are some options for payback that doesn't include him losing a ball and you going to jail or costing you money.
Buy the man a pair of cement shoes.
i personally would kill the bastered
see lawyer 16 is under age
In some state's, 16 is the legal age of consent, how ever talk to a DA (not cops) about possible charges of indecent liberties with a minor. She is still considered a minor becuse she is under 18 fed. law. Also when you talk to the DA mension a PFA or protection from abuse order. as an adult you have a responablity to look after your daughter and a PFA (A.K.A restraining order) will force him to stay away from your daughter or face jail time.Need some legal advice on my 16yr Daughter pregnant by a married man in his late 20s.?
Please hire a lawyer. Your daughter life is in your hand...... give her a pull out of this evil man :( SUE him!!!
Thats horrible! As long as your daughter admits it was cosentual you cant really do any damage...
I owuld get a lawyer and sew him for all he is worth, or get like really good child support off him. But to be realistic, just talk to your lawyer about your options. Choose the one that you think will help you and your daughter gat through it easier.
I dont think that it is right either, you should be able to do something about it.
Talk to a attorney. You may get him of child rape. The man needs to go to jail let the mans wife know what he did.
move your case to california so you can put his *** to jail
have you talk to an attorney? get legal advice.
You make me sick listening to your parental skills. Maybe you should of been a better parent and this would not have happened . Also it takes two to tango - Mom. If little baby daughter got herself in this mess its her job to get out of it.
First of all TRUST me Im not bashing you but where were you when they were obviously doing the ';act';? I mean unless your daughter is just not nice I would assume they had been seeing each other and led up to this, right? I mean at some point YOU as the parent has to accept responsibility. And know that I mean no disrespect or to try to hurt your feelings but way to often as parents we turn a BLIND eye to our children's behavior, Ive also done this of course my daughter's not pregnant but then again I don't let her go far and Im calling every 15, 30 , 45 min not in that order actually but she NEVER knows when I'll call and give her 5 or 10 min to be home.I do this BECAUSE I also made the mistake of letting my 17 yo son have to much freedom and he and his gf are now expecting their child and she is now 19 SO (see I said we ALL turn a blind eye) but anyhow in alot of states that is the consensual age YES but your state SHOULD have statutory rape laws AS LONG as you ddnt consent to the dating at ANY point, and if you did I would suggest you , your daughter, AND the Father weather it the best way you can. Make damn sure he takes his part. I Understand FULLY how you feel and I see alot of people are bashing the ';father'; and him sleeping with a 16 yo in itself IS definitely wrong BUT why has no one brought up the fact that NO this was not Rape and your daughter OBVIOUSLY participated and at 16 Im more than sure she knew not only what she was doing BUT also the possibilities AND the concequences, she's DEFINITELY not innocent in this u know?
Go to the department of Social Services and try to set up child support. the dept of social services will require him to submit to a paternity test and once paternity is established then he will be responsible for child support as well as caring insurance on the baby.
But just so you know, the down side to this is that the father will then be likely to get visitation rights, and this will most likely not include your daughter. It would be like every other weekend, where he would pick the baby up and keep the baby until a certain time set by a judge. The visitation may not be overnight at first when the baby is so small, but once the baby is off bottle feeding/breast feeding, then it is possible that the father would have overnight visitation with the baby where your daughter would not be with them, but he would have the baby with his wife, if she decides to stay with him after this.
And once paternity is established, he could even go after custody of the baby, by saying that he is married, and that the baby would have a better, more stable life with him and his wife, rather than a single mother not yet out of school. it could get ugly.
If she is of legal age there isn't much you can do about the sex..However you need to make him financially responsible for raising the child..Be sure his name is on the birth certificate and take him to court for child support
my GOD that's terrible.this guy is a jerk i wish i could help maybe someone can give u advice
You should talk to your D.A. there. There has to be a law reguarding your daughters age. Also check about having him arrested for adultry. A lot of states still have this type of law on their books.
Make it known to his wife if it isnt already men like him need help and the laws suck yes at 16 they can consent to sex but your responsable for her screw ups till she 19 makes no sense but its reality...Force him to step and do what he needs to do as for the STD he probably has a few little girls he is messing with check around and ask a few questions there may be a few underage jailbates he is messin with I pretty much doubt your daughter is the first or the last but you might be able to make her pregnancy his final error in judgement if you find a minor he is messin with...Good Luck hun and Congrats on the baby even tho I know it is hard
underage sex is considered as rape.............have it under the rape section
First, you have to blame your daughter for knowingly done this.This cannot happen without knowledge. You have to prove she was raped by that man. You daughter has to say that.
Next, you have to prove that this man is responsible for this, by getting DNA test performed.
You have to think about rehabilitation of the child.
or you have to allow your daughter to become his second wife.
This thing happened because sex is blind.
You cannot control the body language.
Age is nothing to do with sex.
These things happen till human beings live in this on earth.
Study the law becasue with him being married he has violated his oath to his wife. If you can find anything that has to do with emotional strain as well as deceit i am sure it will help. Does the wife know? She can sue him for doing it and HE IS RESPONSIBLE financially for her care and that baby, GET HIM ANYWAY YOU CAN he can't go around getting young girls pregnant while he is married, And the std too. You've got to find a good lawyer, medical bills is also his responsibility
Other then him taking a DNA test and paying child support legally there isn't alot you can do however.... If it was my daughter he would never be able to get anyone pregnant again it might cost me some money and a little jail time but he would pay dearly.. Does his wife know what he has done? His friends?? His employers? Those are some options for payback that doesn't include him losing a ball and you going to jail or costing you money.
Buy the man a pair of cement shoes.
i personally would kill the bastered
see lawyer 16 is under age
Advice for a young person on how to become a man?
What should he know? Pretend for a moment that he was your son...
Thanks ;)Advice for a young person on how to become a man?
Work hard. Listen Closely. Learn EVERYTHING He can. Save. And above ALL- be Compassionate. And if your Son grows up to Do all these Things, then He shall SURELY Be- among the BEST of All Men... :)Advice for a young person on how to become a man?
i'd tell my boy that the best thing he can do in life is to search for true happiness. not plastic happiness. money, drugs, objects, none of that is the key. if he can find a wife who loves him, trust that when the unthinkable happens, that God is in us all and he can save us when we're in time of trouble, and if he stands up for the things he cherishes most (even if they're ';plastic';) that he will be a true Man in the eyes of God, in the eyes of humans and in the eyes of his own father. he has to believe. in God, in himself, and believe that his father tells him this to help him succeed in life, not to preach to the choir.
i'd tell him if his destiny is to be a man look at a person you consider to be a man and emulate them
While giving some good advice is worthwhile, modeling what these authors teach is probably more long-term building of virtue and strength:
';Adventurer's Guide,'; Jack Wheeler,
';Man, Master of His Destiny,'; O. M. Aivanhov,
';The Great Divorce,'; C. S. Lewis,
';Stay Alive, My Son,'; Pin Yathay,
';When Invisible Children Sing,'; Chang, M.D.,
';They Call Me Coach,'; John Wooden,
';For Men Only,'; Shaunti Feldhahn, and,
to lighten things up a bit,
';A Pelican at Blandings,'; P. G. Wodehouse,
';Alcatraz versus the Evil Librarians,'; Brandon Sanderson,
';In a Sunburned Country,'; Bill Bryson, and,
to go into the mystical a bit,
';The Path of the Higher Self,'; Mark Prophet,
';Momo,'; Michael Ende, and, to go against the current zeitgeist,
';University of Destruction,'; David Wheaton, and
';Liberal Fascism,'; Jonah Goldberg.
Reviews at http://www.amazon.com
How to deal with critical situations. How to decide things by his own. How to stand stand firm against the challenge by the time.
The most significant characteristic of a real man is that he does not avoid his duties and responsibilities.
Look in Hamlet (W.Shakespeare) - Portious address to Laurties.
Read the Bible and follow the example of Jesus; love God %26amp; follow his teachings.
Be a leader.
Stand up for yourself.
Believe in yourself.
Thats what ill tell my son.
Self respect.
Thanks ;)Advice for a young person on how to become a man?
Work hard. Listen Closely. Learn EVERYTHING He can. Save. And above ALL- be Compassionate. And if your Son grows up to Do all these Things, then He shall SURELY Be- among the BEST of All Men... :)Advice for a young person on how to become a man?
i'd tell my boy that the best thing he can do in life is to search for true happiness. not plastic happiness. money, drugs, objects, none of that is the key. if he can find a wife who loves him, trust that when the unthinkable happens, that God is in us all and he can save us when we're in time of trouble, and if he stands up for the things he cherishes most (even if they're ';plastic';) that he will be a true Man in the eyes of God, in the eyes of humans and in the eyes of his own father. he has to believe. in God, in himself, and believe that his father tells him this to help him succeed in life, not to preach to the choir.
i'd tell him if his destiny is to be a man look at a person you consider to be a man and emulate them
While giving some good advice is worthwhile, modeling what these authors teach is probably more long-term building of virtue and strength:
';Adventurer's Guide,'; Jack Wheeler,
';Man, Master of His Destiny,'; O. M. Aivanhov,
';The Great Divorce,'; C. S. Lewis,
';Stay Alive, My Son,'; Pin Yathay,
';When Invisible Children Sing,'; Chang, M.D.,
';They Call Me Coach,'; John Wooden,
';For Men Only,'; Shaunti Feldhahn, and,
to lighten things up a bit,
';A Pelican at Blandings,'; P. G. Wodehouse,
';Alcatraz versus the Evil Librarians,'; Brandon Sanderson,
';In a Sunburned Country,'; Bill Bryson, and,
to go into the mystical a bit,
';The Path of the Higher Self,'; Mark Prophet,
';Momo,'; Michael Ende, and, to go against the current zeitgeist,
';University of Destruction,'; David Wheaton, and
';Liberal Fascism,'; Jonah Goldberg.
Reviews at http://www.amazon.com
How to deal with critical situations. How to decide things by his own. How to stand stand firm against the challenge by the time.
The most significant characteristic of a real man is that he does not avoid his duties and responsibilities.
Look in Hamlet (W.Shakespeare) - Portious address to Laurties.
Read the Bible and follow the example of Jesus; love God %26amp; follow his teachings.
Be a leader.
Stand up for yourself.
Believe in yourself.
Thats what ill tell my son.
Self respect.
Single... I need advice on how to get and keep a man?
I love being single or should i say i did I've been soingle for a long time but latley some guys that I kno have been asking why don't i have a boyfriend because they think i'm really pretty. I've been getting asked these questions frequentlyand i'm tired of hearing ';Avi, Why don't you have a boyfriend. I've started to wonder to because guys are always telling me and texing me on how beautiful or gorgeous they think i am and i when i go to the store or mall i always get asked my number or hit on usually i don't call thouse guys back because of my mom but that's another issue. If guys hit on me and some have told me they really like me why don't they act on their impulses and ask me out. I'm fustrated and i don't get it. Help plz to let me kno why i'm still alone.Single... I need advice on how to get and keep a man?
You know how guys are...sometime they are just too scared to go up to a lady and simply ask her out. But I think the answer to your question of why you are still alone is because you are worrying about it too much. Just relax and enjoy your time as a single person, even though it may be hard to do. Don't worry, God will send you someone special when the time is right. Even if you're not looking for that special someone, you still have to wait on the Lord. Just be patient!Single... I need advice on how to get and keep a man?
i can relate to that and i feel same way too...but i just think positively. i am alone but i not lonely... i want to know guys answer about this too..pls help !!! lol
Hi avanti its nice to have some one with whom you can spend some quality time, having freinds is good, now if you think you need some one special I think you must prepare yourself for that.
You know how guys are...sometime they are just too scared to go up to a lady and simply ask her out. But I think the answer to your question of why you are still alone is because you are worrying about it too much. Just relax and enjoy your time as a single person, even though it may be hard to do. Don't worry, God will send you someone special when the time is right. Even if you're not looking for that special someone, you still have to wait on the Lord. Just be patient!Single... I need advice on how to get and keep a man?
i can relate to that and i feel same way too...but i just think positively. i am alone but i not lonely... i want to know guys answer about this too..pls help !!! lol
Hi avanti its nice to have some one with whom you can spend some quality time, having freinds is good, now if you think you need some one special I think you must prepare yourself for that.
My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
My sister is in love with a man she could never trust. He cheats on her so much she's not even sure if the baby she's carrying is his. What should I tell her to do?My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
Okay now, I have a question. ';He cheats on her so much she's not even sure the baby she's carrying is HIS? Ummmm..., who is cheating on whom?My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
Is your sister blonde?
you just have to let her live her own life. back out of it but always be there for her when she needs you. and never tell her ';i told you so';.
Your sister's in love with a man who cheats on her...YET.. she's not sure if the baby she's carrying is his???? This makes no sense. If she's not sure if the baby is his or not, does that not mean that she has cheated on him????
tell her to stop cheating!
why don't you talk to that man if you can,try to know that guy better and make him understand the family values though its not easy if he's really a cheater but the other thing is who's the cheater here as u said ur 'sis' even don't know who's baby she's carrying i'm sorry ,just talk about it with people involved.
WHEN A PERSON IS IN LOVE AND SOMEONE DONT APPROVE THEM BEING TOGETHER ITS GOING TO MAKE HER LOVE HIM MORE. SO REALLY ITS NOTHING YOU CAN TELL HER SHE WILL HAVE TO FIND OUT FOR HERSELF
CHEAT ON HIM WITH YOUR SISTER.
tell her to leave him, be a good brother!!!
Stay out of it.... you will always be the bad guy
ok so he cheats on your sister but your sister says the baby might not be his. How can that be . maybe they belong together. Both seem to be cheating to me.
tell her to leave him.. follow the guy and take pictures ..
That doesn't make any sense, but....my advice: M Y O B !
If she's not sure that her baby is his it sounds like she may be cheating as well.
But generally there's nothing you can do. You can talk to her and let he know how you feel but she's her own person and she will make her own decisions. Maybe one day she'll wake up and realize that she deserves better but until then....just try to be supportive of her (not her relationship just her).
Okay, first, if she's not sure if the baby is his, then she's the one cheating. That's a problem in it's own.
Second, love is blind and no matter what you tell her, she's got to be the one who sees it on her own. You can say things to her for her to notice later but don't preach. And never give her an altimadum. She's going to burn herself out on him eventually and will need you to be there when she finally cracks.
You can say things to her like, ';the one'; for you, the perfect man to match your needs, would he cheat on you, or would he be a trustworthy loving man?
There's a lot of things on the Dr. Phil website that are very relevant to this. I'm aware that many people think he's annoying, however you don't have to hear is voice on the site. I suggest going there, looking stuff up and rephrasing for the next time you two have a chat about where her life is heading.
Best of luck!
ok, 1 question of my own, SHE is pregnant, and HE cheats, so how could the baby NOT be HIS??? so, im confused, who's cheating HIM or HER????
Why would the baby not be his unless she cheated too.... You can't tell her anything really. Try to find physical proof (pictures and stuff.)
Leave him
what do mean that she is not sure if the baby she carring is not his? is she cheating to?
Okay now, I have a question. ';He cheats on her so much she's not even sure the baby she's carrying is HIS? Ummmm..., who is cheating on whom?My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
Is your sister blonde?
you just have to let her live her own life. back out of it but always be there for her when she needs you. and never tell her ';i told you so';.
Your sister's in love with a man who cheats on her...YET.. she's not sure if the baby she's carrying is his???? This makes no sense. If she's not sure if the baby is his or not, does that not mean that she has cheated on him????
tell her to stop cheating!
why don't you talk to that man if you can,try to know that guy better and make him understand the family values though its not easy if he's really a cheater but the other thing is who's the cheater here as u said ur 'sis' even don't know who's baby she's carrying i'm sorry ,just talk about it with people involved.
WHEN A PERSON IS IN LOVE AND SOMEONE DONT APPROVE THEM BEING TOGETHER ITS GOING TO MAKE HER LOVE HIM MORE. SO REALLY ITS NOTHING YOU CAN TELL HER SHE WILL HAVE TO FIND OUT FOR HERSELF
CHEAT ON HIM WITH YOUR SISTER.
tell her to leave him, be a good brother!!!
Stay out of it.... you will always be the bad guy
ok so he cheats on your sister but your sister says the baby might not be his. How can that be . maybe they belong together. Both seem to be cheating to me.
tell her to leave him.. follow the guy and take pictures ..
That doesn't make any sense, but....my advice: M Y O B !
If she's not sure that her baby is his it sounds like she may be cheating as well.
But generally there's nothing you can do. You can talk to her and let he know how you feel but she's her own person and she will make her own decisions. Maybe one day she'll wake up and realize that she deserves better but until then....just try to be supportive of her (not her relationship just her).
Okay, first, if she's not sure if the baby is his, then she's the one cheating. That's a problem in it's own.
Second, love is blind and no matter what you tell her, she's got to be the one who sees it on her own. You can say things to her for her to notice later but don't preach. And never give her an altimadum. She's going to burn herself out on him eventually and will need you to be there when she finally cracks.
You can say things to her like, ';the one'; for you, the perfect man to match your needs, would he cheat on you, or would he be a trustworthy loving man?
There's a lot of things on the Dr. Phil website that are very relevant to this. I'm aware that many people think he's annoying, however you don't have to hear is voice on the site. I suggest going there, looking stuff up and rephrasing for the next time you two have a chat about where her life is heading.
Best of luck!
ok, 1 question of my own, SHE is pregnant, and HE cheats, so how could the baby NOT be HIS??? so, im confused, who's cheating HIM or HER????
Why would the baby not be his unless she cheated too.... You can't tell her anything really. Try to find physical proof (pictures and stuff.)
Leave him
what do mean that she is not sure if the baby she carring is not his? is she cheating to?
I'm engaged to a man who has a young daughter. I'd like advice on how to develop a relationship with her.
His daughter is four years-old. how do I develop a relationship with her without oversteping boundaries or acting like a ';step mom.'; The bigger issue is that my fiancee was just sent to Iraq, so without him around to help with the process I'm nervous and afraid to mess it up!I'm engaged to a man who has a young daughter. I'd like advice on how to develop a relationship with her.
First of all, with him being in Iraq it can cause problems with createing a relationship. I have experienced that honesty is the best policey. With a two family sceanario everyone needs to be on the same foot. I would drop a message to the girls mother. Explain that you would like to play a part in your fiancee's daughters life, because she is a part of his. Explain that whatever happened between the two of them isn't your concern. If you present yourself in a possitive way, and express that you want to develop a positive relationship with the daughter without stepping on toes, I'm sure you will get a positive responce. Maybe mommy could use a babysitter sometime, or maybe mommy knows some ideas about how to get the daughters attention. Establishing a positive relationship with both of the daughters parents can also lead to a positive relationship with the daughter. Also make sure the father knows that you would like to have a relationship with his daughter. He could be supportive and helpful with ideas as well. Whatever you do, do not pressure the child to want a relationship with you. Let her determine that a relationship is what she would want.
Good luck.I'm engaged to a man who has a young daughter. I'd like advice on how to develop a relationship with her.
if you can try to do it mutually with her mom it will go alot smoother good luck and thank your husband for serving our country
You don't say what happened to the real mother of the child? If she is only 4, it should be easy to get to know her and develop a bond. A teenager would be a different story, but I think it should be easy. Just talk to her, let her know you are there to take care of her and she can talk to you about anything. Be compassionate where the dad is concerned, it must be hard on her losing him and not having a real mother. But you ARE her stepmother, so act like one. She needs to know you love her and are there for her. Do things she likes to do to gain her trust. Play it by ear, it won't be hard.
I think as long as you are nice. Say nice things to her. No name calling. Be patient. Listen to her.
The same as building any relationship...only she is four.
You have the opportunity to really be a person of positive impact on her sweet little life. Just an additional person to lover her to pieces, and make her feel important, appreciated and valued in this big place we call earth!
Good Luck!
Spend some time with her and get to know her more. Gain her trust and her love and let her decide if she wants to look up to you as a motherly figure or not.
I'm thinking of you girl. I'm a military wife myself. To answer your question, the person you have in common, the reason why you need to develop a relationship with her is her dad, your fiance. So start there. Why don't you take her to the ';build a bear'; for you both to build a bear to send to her dad in Iraq. Maybe another time you can take her out to buy something for her dad for father's day or some crafts to write dad letters. Let those be step one. Then you can add some non-dad related activities once that foundation is there. Like going to the movies, to the beach, to the park, out to buy her mother/carer a gift. Don't rush the relationship though, just take it slow! Good luck to you all and congratulations on your engagement!
develop a strong mother --daughter realationship with her.....treat her like any mother would treat a child...take her out to the park...have fun with her... buy her things when she is good... discipline her when she is bad...treat her as if she were your own child !
Where is the child's mother and what does she feel about your relationship with her x? Those answers make a big difference in what your relationship with her child will be and how to go about it.
Do activities with her. But honestly, if I were your daughter-to-be, no matter who you are, I would totally ruin your life for you and give you as much pain as possible and avoid ALL contact. I know that doesn't help, but that's a real, honest, true opinion.
Well, I think it depends on if she's living w/ you full time or not. The fact is - if she's living w/ you then you ARE FORCED to step up and play the role of ';mom.'; She needs that love and stability in her life even if she doesn't know that. To me, one of the most important things is for the father to emphasize that you are not replacing her mom and that you love her and are allowed to discipline her. He has to support you in that or she will be allowed to walk all over you. You can try just being her friend but you must be able to give her guildelines as well. She has to respect you. If I were you, I would create special ';play dates'; that are just you and her. Find out what she's REALLY interested in - chances are, at that age, it's a cartoon character of some sort. If you live near a large city, find out if there are any ice skating shows coming to town. Like the Dora the Explorer show or something like that. She'd love that! If you can't do that, take her on a picnic to the local park! Or make a movie night where you guys make her fav dinner and she gets to choose the movie you rent! Don't worry - she'll love you in no time.
1st off, I hope you have some kind of civilized relationship with the mom, cause otherwise it's going to be hard. Do not in anyway make mom or child think you are trying to be a mommy figure. Maybe with the mom's permisssion you can send her little cards or drop off some small gifts ';from dad'; and just talk with the child about her daddy, I'm sure she is missing him bunches and she needs reassuring. You will have plenty of time to get to know her better when daddy gets home, until then easy does it. Good luck.
take your time reassure her you are not going to ever take the place of her mum
be her friend do activities with her to build a bond
but above all set boundries of what is not and what is acceptable
I am sure you will get there Good Luck
Respect her mother as the mom. Don't try and take her place . If the child feels like you are not a threat of interferring and are an ';in addition'; family member then she will feel safe to create a bond with you. Basically what I am saying is that you can be a mom to her without taking her moms place. Call her up to say hello, take her to lunch, remember her on special holidays. Take the time with her, playing, crafts, movies, making dinners etc. You can be a back up babysitter. Volunteer your time and ask her mother and dad what you can do to help out. They will all appreciate it and you get the benifits of ';fitting in'; without it being forced. Little steps at a time.
One thing, I loved my step mother. She passed away last year with me by her side. She never tried to take my moms place but was always a mother to me accepting my life the way it was and never jealous of my ';real mother';. She spent her time doing the little things with us and she never put us in a postition of ';choosing';. That is what makes a great step-';mom';. Good luck! It's fun, it's hard and it's totally worth it!
Be her friend, but don't let her walk all over you. Do activities together to build a bond.
Be yourself. There isnt a manual or a perfect way to do this. Kids are resilient so if you were to do small mess ups here and there they either will forget about it or move on or not even care or notice as long as you dont hurt her, and dont panic kids fall they get hurt its isnt your fault. Four is such a sweet tender age. Just dont be her friend, and dont over do it with rules and discipline but set rules, establish whats right and wrong, and talk to her, she can speak and understand you, talk with her not at her, just have love and patience in your heart and you'll be fine. Set routines for her to do her normal things like brush her teeth, pick up her toys etc and help her when she needs it dont baby her , set time aside to do fun stuff, coloring, walks, playing. You can do this. Good luck, you'll do just fine
First of all, with him being in Iraq it can cause problems with createing a relationship. I have experienced that honesty is the best policey. With a two family sceanario everyone needs to be on the same foot. I would drop a message to the girls mother. Explain that you would like to play a part in your fiancee's daughters life, because she is a part of his. Explain that whatever happened between the two of them isn't your concern. If you present yourself in a possitive way, and express that you want to develop a positive relationship with the daughter without stepping on toes, I'm sure you will get a positive responce. Maybe mommy could use a babysitter sometime, or maybe mommy knows some ideas about how to get the daughters attention. Establishing a positive relationship with both of the daughters parents can also lead to a positive relationship with the daughter. Also make sure the father knows that you would like to have a relationship with his daughter. He could be supportive and helpful with ideas as well. Whatever you do, do not pressure the child to want a relationship with you. Let her determine that a relationship is what she would want.
Good luck.I'm engaged to a man who has a young daughter. I'd like advice on how to develop a relationship with her.
if you can try to do it mutually with her mom it will go alot smoother good luck and thank your husband for serving our country
You don't say what happened to the real mother of the child? If she is only 4, it should be easy to get to know her and develop a bond. A teenager would be a different story, but I think it should be easy. Just talk to her, let her know you are there to take care of her and she can talk to you about anything. Be compassionate where the dad is concerned, it must be hard on her losing him and not having a real mother. But you ARE her stepmother, so act like one. She needs to know you love her and are there for her. Do things she likes to do to gain her trust. Play it by ear, it won't be hard.
I think as long as you are nice. Say nice things to her. No name calling. Be patient. Listen to her.
The same as building any relationship...only she is four.
You have the opportunity to really be a person of positive impact on her sweet little life. Just an additional person to lover her to pieces, and make her feel important, appreciated and valued in this big place we call earth!
Good Luck!
Spend some time with her and get to know her more. Gain her trust and her love and let her decide if she wants to look up to you as a motherly figure or not.
I'm thinking of you girl. I'm a military wife myself. To answer your question, the person you have in common, the reason why you need to develop a relationship with her is her dad, your fiance. So start there. Why don't you take her to the ';build a bear'; for you both to build a bear to send to her dad in Iraq. Maybe another time you can take her out to buy something for her dad for father's day or some crafts to write dad letters. Let those be step one. Then you can add some non-dad related activities once that foundation is there. Like going to the movies, to the beach, to the park, out to buy her mother/carer a gift. Don't rush the relationship though, just take it slow! Good luck to you all and congratulations on your engagement!
develop a strong mother --daughter realationship with her.....treat her like any mother would treat a child...take her out to the park...have fun with her... buy her things when she is good... discipline her when she is bad...treat her as if she were your own child !
Where is the child's mother and what does she feel about your relationship with her x? Those answers make a big difference in what your relationship with her child will be and how to go about it.
Do activities with her. But honestly, if I were your daughter-to-be, no matter who you are, I would totally ruin your life for you and give you as much pain as possible and avoid ALL contact. I know that doesn't help, but that's a real, honest, true opinion.
Well, I think it depends on if she's living w/ you full time or not. The fact is - if she's living w/ you then you ARE FORCED to step up and play the role of ';mom.'; She needs that love and stability in her life even if she doesn't know that. To me, one of the most important things is for the father to emphasize that you are not replacing her mom and that you love her and are allowed to discipline her. He has to support you in that or she will be allowed to walk all over you. You can try just being her friend but you must be able to give her guildelines as well. She has to respect you. If I were you, I would create special ';play dates'; that are just you and her. Find out what she's REALLY interested in - chances are, at that age, it's a cartoon character of some sort. If you live near a large city, find out if there are any ice skating shows coming to town. Like the Dora the Explorer show or something like that. She'd love that! If you can't do that, take her on a picnic to the local park! Or make a movie night where you guys make her fav dinner and she gets to choose the movie you rent! Don't worry - she'll love you in no time.
1st off, I hope you have some kind of civilized relationship with the mom, cause otherwise it's going to be hard. Do not in anyway make mom or child think you are trying to be a mommy figure. Maybe with the mom's permisssion you can send her little cards or drop off some small gifts ';from dad'; and just talk with the child about her daddy, I'm sure she is missing him bunches and she needs reassuring. You will have plenty of time to get to know her better when daddy gets home, until then easy does it. Good luck.
take your time reassure her you are not going to ever take the place of her mum
be her friend do activities with her to build a bond
but above all set boundries of what is not and what is acceptable
I am sure you will get there Good Luck
Respect her mother as the mom. Don't try and take her place . If the child feels like you are not a threat of interferring and are an ';in addition'; family member then she will feel safe to create a bond with you. Basically what I am saying is that you can be a mom to her without taking her moms place. Call her up to say hello, take her to lunch, remember her on special holidays. Take the time with her, playing, crafts, movies, making dinners etc. You can be a back up babysitter. Volunteer your time and ask her mother and dad what you can do to help out. They will all appreciate it and you get the benifits of ';fitting in'; without it being forced. Little steps at a time.
One thing, I loved my step mother. She passed away last year with me by her side. She never tried to take my moms place but was always a mother to me accepting my life the way it was and never jealous of my ';real mother';. She spent her time doing the little things with us and she never put us in a postition of ';choosing';. That is what makes a great step-';mom';. Good luck! It's fun, it's hard and it's totally worth it!
Be her friend, but don't let her walk all over you. Do activities together to build a bond.
Be yourself. There isnt a manual or a perfect way to do this. Kids are resilient so if you were to do small mess ups here and there they either will forget about it or move on or not even care or notice as long as you dont hurt her, and dont panic kids fall they get hurt its isnt your fault. Four is such a sweet tender age. Just dont be her friend, and dont over do it with rules and discipline but set rules, establish whats right and wrong, and talk to her, she can speak and understand you, talk with her not at her, just have love and patience in your heart and you'll be fine. Set routines for her to do her normal things like brush her teeth, pick up her toys etc and help her when she needs it dont baby her , set time aside to do fun stuff, coloring, walks, playing. You can do this. Good luck, you'll do just fine
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