Thursday, August 19, 2010

My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?

My sister is in love with a man she could never trust. He cheats on her so much she's not even sure if the baby she's carrying is his. What should I tell her to do?My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
Okay now, I have a question. ';He cheats on her so much she's not even sure the baby she's carrying is HIS? Ummmm..., who is cheating on whom?My sister is in love with a man who cheats on her...advice please?
Is your sister blonde?
you just have to let her live her own life. back out of it but always be there for her when she needs you. and never tell her ';i told you so';.
Your sister's in love with a man who cheats on her...YET.. she's not sure if the baby she's carrying is his???? This makes no sense. If she's not sure if the baby is his or not, does that not mean that she has cheated on him????
tell her to stop cheating!
why don't you talk to that man if you can,try to know that guy better and make him understand the family values though its not easy if he's really a cheater but the other thing is who's the cheater here as u said ur 'sis' even don't know who's baby she's carrying i'm sorry ,just talk about it with people involved.
WHEN A PERSON IS IN LOVE AND SOMEONE DONT APPROVE THEM BEING TOGETHER ITS GOING TO MAKE HER LOVE HIM MORE. SO REALLY ITS NOTHING YOU CAN TELL HER SHE WILL HAVE TO FIND OUT FOR HERSELF
CHEAT ON HIM WITH YOUR SISTER.
tell her to leave him, be a good brother!!!
Stay out of it.... you will always be the bad guy
ok so he cheats on your sister but your sister says the baby might not be his. How can that be . maybe they belong together. Both seem to be cheating to me.
tell her to leave him.. follow the guy and take pictures ..
That doesn't make any sense, but....my advice: M Y O B !
If she's not sure that her baby is his it sounds like she may be cheating as well.


But generally there's nothing you can do. You can talk to her and let he know how you feel but she's her own person and she will make her own decisions. Maybe one day she'll wake up and realize that she deserves better but until then....just try to be supportive of her (not her relationship just her).
Okay, first, if she's not sure if the baby is his, then she's the one cheating. That's a problem in it's own.


Second, love is blind and no matter what you tell her, she's got to be the one who sees it on her own. You can say things to her for her to notice later but don't preach. And never give her an altimadum. She's going to burn herself out on him eventually and will need you to be there when she finally cracks.


You can say things to her like, ';the one'; for you, the perfect man to match your needs, would he cheat on you, or would he be a trustworthy loving man?


There's a lot of things on the Dr. Phil website that are very relevant to this. I'm aware that many people think he's annoying, however you don't have to hear is voice on the site. I suggest going there, looking stuff up and rephrasing for the next time you two have a chat about where her life is heading.


Best of luck!
ok, 1 question of my own, SHE is pregnant, and HE cheats, so how could the baby NOT be HIS??? so, im confused, who's cheating HIM or HER????
Why would the baby not be his unless she cheated too.... You can't tell her anything really. Try to find physical proof (pictures and stuff.)
Leave him
what do mean that she is not sure if the baby she carring is not his? is she cheating to?

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