Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?

I realize that I knew he was married from the beggining but i continued. Now that things have developed more I feel very guilty and don't know how to end this because I feel something very special for him. I really don't know what his true feeling toward me are but he keeps approaching me more and more. This realationship has been going on for about 5 months but I recently found out something that shocked me guess what his wife is about 4 months pregnant. I just don't understand what he wants from me cause everytime we make out he seems to enjoy it as i do. I dont know if he just wants that or if he truly loves me. I need some advice on how to end this relationship. Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
Just say NO next time he wants to talk to you or get together. Obviously, you were just a toy for him to pick up and drop whenever he wants. He's still having sex with his wife, he must love her. He's not going to leave her for you and if he did, he would do the same to you later. Wrong is wrong. I hope you learned your lesson. If you play with fire, you're gonna get burned.





Edit: If he won't leave you alone, tell him you are going to have a conversation with the wife, that should help.Need advice on how to end an affair im having with a married man?
you put yourself in his wife position, being pregnant and all. How would you feel if your husband was sorry enough to cheat on you? and only 1 year of marriage, and their first child. Stop thinking about yourself here, and think about her, and her feelings. This guy loves neither of you, he is just using you because he can and you allow him, and he does not love his wife, because if he did, he would not be cheating on her with you. I would not want to be around when she finds out, and believe me, she will....she probably already suspects something.
Wow. He is your manager?!?! Amazing. And he's been having an affair with you...while his new wife is home, pregnant?!?! Wow, wow, wow. He is scum!





Look, this is more than just a hideous situation, it's also illegal if he has used his position to get you to engage in this affair. Bring it to the attention of HR if the place you work is big enough.





Of course, it goes without saying that you need to end the relationship and cut off all contact...meaning no calls, no emails, no longing looks over the water cooler, nothing, nothing, nothing, no matter what.
It's really, really simple:


Stop taking his calls, don't answer the door, don't e-mail him.


Cut off all contact with him.


All he wants from you is sex--and you KNOW he's also having sex with wifey. He will never leave her for you. Stop letting him use you and find some self respect.





I hope you are really ashamed of yourself. In my opinion, women who see married men are completely amoral and deserve a lonely, loveless future.
What do you get out of having an affair? It will hurt you and his marriage. Regardless, this is wrong! You need to tell him it is over. He is married and he needs to be with his wife. What would you do if you were married and your husband had an affair and with another woman that was pregnant?
if feeling guilty wasnt enough , knowing you could be the cause of his child being born without a daddy there should be enough to walk away , and no im sorry its not your fault alone , it takes two and i would put more blame on him , actually i would go as far as saying he is a total loser !
oh my!! Your question is so similar to mine that I just posted!! Mine doesn't have a pregnant wife but she is desperate to get pregnant and he doesn't want kids right now! Wow!! We should really talk!! I haven't started the actual affair - yet. Well, physically, anyway. But it's coming quick! I guess you would tell me not to go along with it, huh?
Bad, bad bad trouble.





What I would suggest as the best cure is get another man pronto. It's going to be hard to drop this lover if you feel like you'll be alone if you do. Find another single guy and get something going and this married guy will start to become an annoyance to you.
The only way you will know how he feels is ask him, and he might lie to you. It's possible he could love you, there is no way to tell. Tell him you really love him but know it's not going to work out.
If all you do is make out then is just sex.


If you have been getting busy with him for 5 months and his wife is on 4 months pregnant you maybe warming him up for his wife.
Don't end it.





Married men need to get some too. Especially since his wife is preggers.





If if would lessen the guilt, just give him head, and leave the intercourse aside.
Tell him that you know his wife is pregnant and you couldn't possibably go on with your relationship knowing there is a baby on the way. You are doing the right thing. Good luck.
Just tell him you're done: simple as that. You both know you are wrong so he should not be shocked and you owe him no explanation. He is a married man, and you both should be ashamed.
sounds like to me you are going to have to get a new job and tell your man friend that enough is enough. and don't take no for an answer.
He wants his cake and eat it too that's what he wants..And you are letting him do just that..Just break it off with him is not going to leave his wife for you..
Let him know how are you feeling at this moment and see how he react then tell him you want to stop the relationship with him and why.
He 's just another married man who enjoys the thrill of cheating! A PIG!!





All you have to do is say GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE!!


or STAY Home with her!


Or better yet beat it PIG.
Don麓t end it!!! It麓s not ur problem if he has other relationships. Respect him and thus respect urself, only free people deserve happiness.
Here's your answer. Just quit spreading your legs. Then you will find out what he was interested in.
LEAVE HIM





ANYTHING LIKE FRED CLARK FROM DINNINGTON - HE CANNOT KEEP IT IN HIS TROUSERS.
bad....bad....bad...bad.... He must like football teams! oops cheerleading squads and BIG GIRLS!!!