Thursday, July 29, 2010

Advice on dating a younger man, is this the right plan for my life??

I have been dating my current boyfriend for about 7 months now and despite the fact that he is 6 years younger than me (I am 25, he is 19), he is by far the best guy I have ever dated!





We're great friends and get along on an emotional and physical level. We share the same morals, values and goals. He makes me laugh, cares about me, supports me and we love each other a great deal. He is the only man Ive ever seen myself being with long term (marriage).





But lately I have been feeling really stressed and confused by it all....





Im not sure how to explain it but I sometimes wonder if this is really what I want for my life...do I really want to date someone 6 years younger than me?





I had always seen my future husband as being 'my age' and I guess Im having trouble letting go of 'my plan'. No-one else has a problem with the age gap, except me. Im not sure why Im struggling with this when every aspect of our relationship is perfect.





Does anyone else have the same fears?Advice on dating a younger man, is this the right plan for my life??
this has always been interesting to me... i don't know what to say... its easy to see why an age difference might be kind of weird for you... i mean, a 50 year old with a 44 year old is fine, but a college student and a high school student often leads to statutory rape %26gt;.%26lt;. however, in my opinion 19 to 25 is fine, as is the opinion of the law :-P. don't think about it too much... at this point age shouldn't matter too much, especially if your relationship is so great. instead, think of when you're 50 and he's 44 and you've raised kids under a great household with loving parents because your relationship is so great... a time when age will be of no concern to you :-PAdvice on dating a younger man, is this the right plan for my life??
it is all in the mind if you are happy and he is then enjoy.. life is short as it is be happy

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