I am involved with a seperated man and am looking for advice on how not to be the transitional girlfriend.?

The best thing you can do is take it very slow and don't rush things. Keep this relationship to being friends until he can complete the full divorce process. This will allow you two to get to know each other and allow your relationship to grow without confusing things. Just be clear this is just a friendship until the divorce is fully complete and after that then you can explore more.I am involved with a seperated man and am looking for advice on how not to be the transitional girlfriend.?
The worst thing you could do is to get involved with a married cheating man. You think you have problems now yeah well you ain't seen nothing yet.I am involved with a seperated man and am looking for advice on how not to be the transitional girlfriend.?
Baby I'm confused I don't know what to do....


Perfect excuse and he can play you until April and then when April comes around....something else comes up.....But what's up with you?....Did you really need to mess with that woman's man to improve your ego.


Guess what happens when he gets bored with you and is lured by another woman?....He'll tell her that he is leaving you too....Leave before you are left. If that's what you want, look for someone who isn't married.
With out knowing anything about the seperated man, you should most likely leave the situation alone. He will find his new freedom to be exhilirating or troublesome. I will bet that he will be looking for all kinds of action. Time will only tell.
you cant control that he is the only one who can
u can easily test him whether he loves u or is just going to fill his loneliness with u temporary.


good luck.
Too late you already are the transitional girlfriend. If he's confused leave him be.
uhh... d'uh, he's a married man. If you want to have a serious relationship with this guy, he has to commit to the divorce. Otherwise you're just the mistress.





He says he's ';confused.';? That's guy code for ';I want to have sex with you but not commit to you.'; I say stay away until the divorce is final.
Get a clue...one who cheats with you will cheat on you. REAL women know better
Questions to answer ... Who in HIS relationship went after the seperation and Why? ... Was he seperated before or after YOU met him? ... What do YOU want from the relationship? ... Are YOU ';vulnerable'; at this time? ... What do YOU know about HIS ';history';? ...





';Rebounds'; are VERY difficult as YOU know ... they can easily last for years, to include a marriage, and then fall apart ... I do NOT know the ';statistics';, but DO speak from personal experience.
hmmm..perhaps you might be. Have you considered talkin to him directly about it and also keep in mind he's seperated...not divorced yet. My step father was seperated and it all turned out for he and my mother..however not all couples turn out blissfully. You can be there for him during this time but remember the emotional level you share can be very strong...make sure this is what you want as well.