I agree with Cris. However, don't go looking for men, just let it happen. I might add that going to church and participating in your children's activities will make you stand out if a man is looking for a good woman.
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I'm a single parent in need of advice on dating. How to find a Good Man and keep him?
be yourself
First of all, don't try to ';find'; him. Some of the best guys are the ones that you just happened to meet in an un-likely place. Then, when you meet him, just be yourself, if it's meant to be, he's not going any place.
well my mom was single mom almost my whole life...im still young but from my advise find someone that loves you and your children both...and someone that your children aprove of...because trust me...my moms been through many bf's in my life...and if me and my brother didnt like him..it never worked out..my moms married now..but i love her husband..hes the father i never had...
Good luck, I'm in the same situation.Single mom of 2 kids work full time, been single 2 1/2 years.When you get the best answer forward it to me.lol
After my divorce I was single for 3 years.But then my bestfriend set me up on a blind date.We have been together for a year now.I don't know how I have managed to keep him other than I have just been myself.He is an angel sent from above and YOU have an angel out there somewhere.just be patient.Good luck to my fellow single mother!!!!!!!
look at supermarket in vegtable dept. he will be puzzled and need help with melons or something as he shops for first time. he will be buying many TV dinners. he will not be cute. his wife left him for somebody cute. he has a job and does not have time to cook breakfast so maybe at the McDonalds breakfst line.
look for him to be up and about very early in the morning. he is not lazy. early bird gets worm. he is going to work at 5-6AM
he may be at a bank cashing a paycheck on friday. he will not be found in bars or pool halls. he may go to prostitutes. yes, many respectable single men take this option rather than play the games women play. hang out at massage parlors and fake a car problem when you see a good one. you can tell by his clothes. especially shoes.
go to places where men hang out like lakes and rivers and tennis courts and golf clubs. he may be at a car race.
he can usually be found at a baseball game. he will be with his kids on sunday in fast food places at lunchtime if he is divorced. check out chuckie cheese for divorced men too. they are the best as they are trained. the old bachelors are impossible to land. forget them.
you keep him by being nice to him and being a girl instead of an old battle-axe. be positive and lively and happy and cheery. give him attention, appreciation and affection and he will never leave you or cheat. never criticise, complain or try to control him. never cheat on him. you will keep him
forgive his small faults and concentrate on his strengths and remind him a lot of how great he is.
show him your boobies!
to keep him, show him your boobies!
be willing to accept the truth about being a single parent and be honest about yourself and take a chance on love again cause this time you never know what could happen with the next guy so keep your head girl i been there before
I am in the same boat myself, Just concentrate on raising your kid.
first off dont go looking....and second, be true to yourself, be yourself and let him see the woman that you are. Make sure that you do not bring any men around your child, until you know hes the one. when you go out, know what you want. if you can carry on a conversation with him, and you can keep and he can keep eye contact, then that's a good sign, just go slow.....
I need this same advice girlfriend, when you find it email it to me too!
Im 34, 3 kids, career bound, own job, car and pay my bills (somewhat..lol)
but cant find a good man anywhere
i know i am being a little picky, but i dont want a bum! lol
i cant find one either.........
where do you live? add that info to your question, maybe i can look up some places for you to go..lol
and likewise for me too......im in cleveland ohio
Sorry, I took the last one that was available!!
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