Need advice on what to do about a man i a with?

I love this man, he has done many things ... like cheat on me for a whole year, and just crazy things... i took him back every time. but now i just wanna move on and do my own things. we have been together for 6 years and i dont see it goin any where ... he has changed and is nicer .... we live together. every thing in he house is mine. he uses my car to work yet only paid rent about 3 times the whole year. should i stick around and try to help him get his education and everything else or move one .. and ya i am almost done with college and he has not yet attended any.. i have spent about 20 000 on paying his share of things.. I am tired and just rather take care of my self. should i tell him to leave ... or should i stay and try to help him..Need advice on what to do about a man i a with?
first of all its obvious that you've spoiled this man. He has learned to become dependent on your money and your ability to be passive with him. if he had to catch the bus to work everyday, i bet he'd go out and get himself a car (even if it were a bucket). And whenever he has some issue, you run to it like your his mom. It should be the other way around, you only paid 3 months rent this year, because its what was intended, for men to do more and harder work then women. Wing him off of you, start taking care of yourself again. Either he will get on point (afraid to lose someone good) or you wont have to ask yourself that question and get a man who a little more independent and reliable.Need advice on what to do about a man i a with?
Honey, get rid of him as fast as possible. You might have a lot of love for him, but it sounds like he is taking advantage of you. You should not be supporting a grown man. Take care of yourself, and save that extra money you're wasting on him. Kick him out, and let him be someone else's problem. Good luck!
Please tell him to leave, and you will actually be doing him a favor by forcing him to face facts. Some people have to hit rock bottom before they can help themselves.





The fact that you were able to tolerate this and still go to school is, well, AMAZING! You are very smart. I'm sure you'll do very well for yourself.
help him with his education? why, so he can dump on you even more? cut your losses now, why invest anymore time with a loser, he's done nothing for you, why would, or should he start now. you have taught him that it's ok to treat you this way, and you've taught him well. leave him now!
Good for you1


Take care of #1 (you) .....you have 'outgrown' one another.


6+ years I assume you're not 'teenagers' anymore. He thought he'd LIVE 'off' you.


You sound like a Smart %26amp; intelligent Gilr/Woman!


MOVE ON.....Whatever you do, do NOT feel sorry for him and DO NOT let him HOLD you BACK!!
find someone else who is actually going somewhere in life. help yourself first then help others. help yourself by getting rid of this guy who is definitely holding you back from finding happiness with someone else
i think you answered the question yourself... ';but now i just wanna move on and do my own thing.';





be smart. take care of yourself.
Exactly what DID he bring to the relationship? You answered your own question, I just hope you live in a State where he doesnt get half of your stuff.
LEave him for the good of yours. 6 years, if he would change, he would change by now. seriously
If he really cared about you he wouldn't take advantage of you the way he does. Dump him!
Kick him to the curb. He is using you.
Leave.
go find your true love
Follow Your Heart!!!!
DUMP HIM!! he is totally using you....are you blind? sorry but dump him he doesn麓t deserve you......
leave him and follow ur heart