Dont feel waird about it. Maybe a sort true story will help.
My husband to be best man lives in another town. They talk maybe once every 6 months. New when my Ian asked him to be his best man he jump right on broad. He said he would be honored.
Now your friend has a family and can't get away as much but that doesn't mean he too wouldn't be honored to be your best man. Don't hold it off come out and ask him. Then make plans to hang out more. You'll have a lot to talk about when he because the best man...I hope this helps Good luckNeed Advice On Picking a Best Man?
Ask your guy relatives or cousin to be the best man.
A brother should chosen as the best man. Just my opinion. If you don't have a brother then a long term friend. Don't stress. Pick up the phone and tell him the good news.
Go with the friend. So you don't keep in touch as well...that's okay, he's been busy too with his family. That doesn't mean the friendship doesn't exist anymore. Ask him, make a little more of an effort to see him, and don't stress.
Ask your friend!
Does your fiance have a male friend that could be the 'best man'? My partner has a good female friend that is going to be a bridesmaid in our wedding.
Well I wish my hubby would have put more thought into his best man, he did not do any of the ';best man duties'; we thought he should. There was no bachelor party organized, he only showed up to the wedding, and did not really participate in the reception. My hubby was bummed about the bachelor party not happening (not wanting a stripper or anything like that) just a nice get together with friends to hang out together and talk about old times have some beers etc. So my advice to you would be whoever you chose, I would let them know your expectations if they accept your request to be your best man. as for your friend you have known for 10 years, sounds like the best bet, and I am sure he would be honored. Just get in touch with him again, let him know that you value your friendship and would like him to be your best man at your wedding. Try to make more plans with him, possibly a double date so your fiance can get to know him and his wife as well. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Best of luck!
I think this friend should be the one. Don't let the fact that you haven't been in regular contact for a while make you chose someone else. It sounds like this guy has been a great friend to you in the past . Its not like you HATE each other after all, you just have other things going on in your lives and haven't been able to communicate on a regular basis. Go ahead and ask him, I bet he'll be pleasantly surprised.
he has been your friend so go and ask him for sure he'll be glad to be your best man...... congratulations and have a blessed wedding.....
Your friend may be the perfect choice - remember, he is an a stage were wife and child come first and that is great. You are about to enter that stage, so having someone by your side who knows were you are headed is a good thing.
Here is a question to ask yourself: if you were to face a major crisis right now in your life, and you could only have one male friend with you to help you out, who would you turn to for support? It can be your friend, brother, cousin, uncle, dad, grandfather - anyone.
your best man doesn't have to be a man...do you have any female friends who you are close to? just tell her to wear a tux!
A close family relative... your brother if you have one.. ahh i think it would be kinda weird to ask someone you rarely speak to...
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