Advice on my relationship with a married man?

I know the typical answer is run, run fast away from a married man, but I would like some advice preferably from people who have been in a similar situation. I'd really like advice from married men themselves. I have been involved with a married man for a little over a year. It started out innocently as friends, but our compatibility and chemistry was undeniable and we couldn't stay away from each other. Right after we met, I found out I was pregnant with some else's child. The father of my child abandoned us, but my married friend (not lover yet) took care of me and after a few months we became involved. He took care of me the entire time I was pregnant and now that my daughter is here, he is wonderful with her too. He has told me he loves me and that he would like to be with me someday. He says he wants to adopt her and have a family with us. I really love him and think he will make a perfect father for my daughter, but he is married. He said he married his wife too abruptly because he wanted to have a mother for his own daughter and is now regretting the decision. How can I believe that he really will leave her and be with us? Is this even a good possibility or is just telling me what he thinks I want to hear? I know nobody can know what he really intends to do without being in his head, but any advice would be really appreciated. I don't want to make a mistake. Everything is okay for right now because my daughter is too young to understand what is going on, but it can't go on like this indefinitely. I hate not being the one he goes home to. How long should I wait for him? What questions should I ask him? Should I offer for us to move in together? I just want to know what will motivate him to either leave his wife or be honest with me that is not really going to do it. Is a year not enough time to know he wants me and not her? Thank you in advance, especially for my daughter's sake.Advice on my relationship with a married man?
I think you should count your blessings. He took care of you while you were pregnant with another man's child, that's a wonderful thing for him to do. However he still has a wife. He may be telling you what you want to hear. It's hard being 'the other woman' but you cannot force him to leave his wife and be with you. If things are good between you maybe it's better to just accept what is. If you cannot handle it, then maybe it's better to move on. I'm in a somewhat similar situation, except I'm pg with this man's child. Despite what he told me in the beginning, I know now he'll never leave his wife, it's been 2 years. All you can do is leave the door open, so to speak. It's ultimately his decision. Otherwise find someone else and move on. Good luck.Advice on my relationship with a married man?
If he wanted to be with you he would be. And if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you.
i think he is just leading you on sorry to say.. but he loves his wife or else he would of left her a long time ago dont you think so? its commen sense hunny.. be strong and move on.
point said HE is MARRIED will be and always. They lie through their teeth just so they can have you on the side. how do I know 10yrs I've been with him and it's always he gonna leave her but........But I'm not looking for another relationship I'm 49. Each yr the samethings are promised. get a calender take a two year span write down like a diary. each year nothing changes. for me nothing ever will.
You have a daughter now. You are no longer by yourself to do as you please. She deserves not to be raised in a home full of chaos with a progression of men. It's your duty as her mother to teach her right from wrong and to raise her to be a moral person. Right now she's too young to know what is going on, so you have time to get your act together. Drop the married man. If he'd stab his wife in the back he'll stab you in the back as well. After all, there is ALWAYS going to be someone younger and prettier around. Do you and your precious girl a favor. Swear off married men and concentrate on being a good mom. She deserves nothing less.
He is getting all he needs from you. If his intentions were to leave his wife and be with you he would have done that already. He is a liar and a cheat, if he was the least bit honorable he would have divorced his wife before he looked else where. I would bet you anything that you are not his first fling, and you will not be his last. Move on...... once you are out of his life, I can guarantee that he will not divorce his wife. He may come running back with all kinds of promises, unless he is carrying divorce papers in one hand and a ring for you in the other, I wouldn't give him the time of day. I'm sorry you are caught in his trap, free yourself before it gets worse.
Since you became a parent, it's time to stop thinking about yourself and put your daughter first. Definitely don't put your daughter through this though. It may not seem like it now, but there are plenty of people out there that you can date - who aren't married. If this person was any kind of decent, they wouldn't pursue you while married. There is absolutely nothing stopping him from starting the divorce proceedings NOW - and don't think that he's not because he cares about his current wife's feelings and doesn't want to hurt her. If he cared that much he wouldn't go home to her at night while having these types of relations with others. He wouldn't lie to her face. That's what he's doing to her and you and possibly others. Sure it's possible that he rushed into something that ended up not being right for him - we are all human, but there are legitimate ways of handling these situations. The way he's going he will never handle it. He will never get a divorce and if he ever did - he will end up doing the exact same thing to you that he did her. If he is truly in love with you and being honest like he says he would be ready at the drop of a hat to fess up to his wife and bring everything out in the open. He would have done this a year ago. Some people are just broken and there is nothing you can do to fix them. If you don't care enough about yourself to see clearly what is happening then do it for your daughter.

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